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The guy who left his kid in the car


I don't think it's fair to second-guess juries when they are there for hours of testimony, and I'm just watching it on "Dateline" or "48 Hours", but this one kind of bothers me.

First off, it seems completely possible to forget your kid is in the backseat. You do a routine every day, you skip it one day accidentally, and you probably think you did it because REMEMBER doing it every other day. That isn't just crackpot psychology. Second, it always bother me when the police "go with their gut" about someone's guilt. Human beings need to use their BRAINS sometimes, not their "hearts" and certainly not their "guts". If you have never interviewed a guy who accidentally killed his kid by leaving him a hot car, how would you know how he's supposed to act? Many small-town cops frankly are more experienced with being penny-ante bullies than they are with homicide.

I also don't quite trust Southern "Christian" juries when it comes to anything to do with S-E-X. Because a guy is addicted to porn and "sexting" and cheats on his wife, doesn't mean he'd kill his own kid. Because certain guys have had motives like that, doesn't mean that the VAST MAJORITY of porn addicts and adulterers would even consider killing their kid. Why not get divorced or simply abandon your family? Or happily just continue secretly "sexting" and cheating? The "sexting" seems a lot more likely to have DISTRACTED the guy then caused him to commit murder. But in the minds of "Christians" if you commit one minor sin, you must be the kind of "evil" person that would commit ANY sin. Maybe I'm not being fair to the jury here, but that is a problem in "Christian" America.

I don't know, my "gut" tells me they compounded the tragedy by throwing an innocent man in jail, so let's hope these other people--who were in the position to do so--used their BRAINS, and I'm wrong.




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I just put this on and I'm seeing the mother had absolutely no reaction when the cop told her her son died she just asked where's Ross??!!!! I hope they address this bc it's very odd to me as a mom I'd have lost it

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I know and I can't understand why they didn't question her on that or they did and I missed it. Either way she was acting very bizarre

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I thought he was guilty for sure but then when the wife defended him, now I'm not so sure....


P.S. when she asked him: "did you say too much" it was actually addressed in the show, there was a reasonable explanation for it.

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Yes I saw afterwards her explaining why but still think she's suspicious I still think it was very odd for her not to scream or cry when being told her son died. She never even cried whole in the interrogation room with her husband

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Ehhh......he was more suspicious than her.

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People react in different ways. I likely wouldn't emote and it really frightens me that would mean I could be guilty in the eyes of "experienced" detectives. It sounds very unprofessional to me.

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I agree with this. It's very odd to me that more people aren't willing to give parents the benefit of the doubt in horrifying situations like this. The good thing about discussing on the FB page is family members often post and can give insight not shown on the episode.

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It's very odd to me that more people aren't willing to give parents the benefit of the doubt in horrifying situations like this.


A horrifying situation of his own making. If you can't be responsible for a helpless little baby, who should be your most important priority, then what good are you? My sympathies are with the baby not with the parent who had his head up his ass






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Regardless of what you feel about this particular case, these horrible accidents do happen.

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Yes, they do, they happen to irresponsible, negligent people, not careful people who have their priorities straight

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