Frank, Ruth & Ruth's mother


Something that’s always disturbed me is what I imagine to be the relationship between Frank, Ruth, and Ruth’s mother. What I mean is surely Ruth’s mother heard -- perhaps even witnessed -- the beatings, but likely didn’t intervene. I’m sure it broke her heart too, but, given the times, she probably elected not to involve herself. I wonder too how much Ruth and her mother talked about the abuse, if at all.

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This is addressed in the book - Ruth's mother, on her deathbed, urges her to get out saying she knows what he is like.

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Thanks so much. This always bothered me too!

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I've often wondered when Ruth sent the obituary along with the bible verse from the book of Ruth to Idgie, was that sort of a clue to tell Idgie to come and get her?

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Definitely. The scripture basically says "I'm one of you now; where you go, I go." It was code for come get me now.

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