Da TOIKEY!!!!


Did anyone else just crack up hysterically during that scene? In such a serious movie, it’s gotta be the unintentionally funniest scene ever in an American movie. Peace.

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It was funny...but it was the beginning of the end for the extended family. It seems every family has a "toikey" in its closet. My aunts and uncles never talked after a squabble about an inheritance. To this day, there is still a rift in our family.

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I totally agree. I think it just goes to show that so many family arguments and rifts start over silly things like cutting the turkey and turn into an all-out battle between family members. It turned into "you got rich and moved out here to the suburbs, you think you're better than us because you have money, you have no respect for your family," etc.

I think that because we're kind of seeing the whole story through the eyes of Michael, the child, it kind of puts things into perspective and puts the humorous aspect into that scene. Look at silly Grandpa and Great-Uncle Gabriel--they started fighting over a turkey and now they don't talk to each other anymore!

And yes, I think every family who has multiple generations here in America has gone through this in one way or another, whether they lived in Baltimore or elsewhere or were Jewish or otherwise. The movie really speaks volumes about this.

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Something like the turkey problem is really not the problem It is likely an underlying problem buried for years. There was probably some resentment between the two brothers for a long time. Seems that Gabriel felt unappreciated by his brother for bringing him to the U.S. in the first place.

He's taking the knife out of the Cheese!
Do you think he wants some cheese?


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Good point, JR541. Although it seemed like a silly reason for them to stop speaking to each other, there was probably some other 'beef' there between the two of them that had not been expressed. After the family circle meeting where they have the falling out, Gabriel does speak about how it was because of HIM that Sam came to the USA, and it was because of HIM that Sam had been able to own the nightclub.

To the original poster - we still talk about cutting "the toikey" to this day in my family. Back when I first saw this film, we said that it was a good thing that Gabriel was not in our family! He would have arrived late, and heard, "Man, you should have gotten here earlier, you missed it. The food was GOOD too!"


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No Kidding Slimcity321. Heaven forbid he should show up on time. And once all that food is put up, it stays up until the next meal time. Too bad.

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^Darn right, ckfeeney!

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...I guess it wasnt really about the toikey, it was about the stuffing!


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I'm jewish. so every year i used to fast on yom kippur, as you're supposed to. however, i was like the only one in my family doing this. anyway, we would "break the fast" (that only i was doing) at my sister's house, where she had a big spread of deli and smoked fish trays. so it's past the time dinner was called for and someone was late and i (the only one fasting) was told not to eat so the late people would be able to see the trays in their pristine condition. i think you can probably see that this ended up with me never fasting for yom kippur again. it was my personal "toikey" moment.

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My daughters and I quote that line from the film about cutting the toiky ALL the time.

We LOVE this movie! Been quoting it for years and years now. Hilarious.

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Some have posted "Da Toikey" is an event that can happen in any family. A rift occurs that is never resolved. Family members to not speak to one another for many years or never again.

Gabriel, who one would assume is the oldest, is soooooo insulted. One must remember this family is from Europe where a first born son is a sort of 'patriarch' once the father dies. He views himself as the self-appointed leader. He was the "supervisor" during the wallpapering. He was not climbing ladders or mixing paste.
Gabriel continually showing up late for dinner and expecting everyone to wait for 'the emperor' to make his entrance before everyone could begin to eat was arrogant and rude. EVERYONE is assembled, seated and hungry. To continue to wait would be absurd.

The event that was "Da Toikey" in my family involved the sale of a valueless piece of property. My aunts and uncle could not come to an agreement and the arguments that ensued caused a rift that went with some of them to their graves.

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by MuzikJunky » Thu Nov 22 2007 17:55:32
IMDb member since September 2000
Did anyone else just crack up hysterically during that scene? In such a serious movie, it’s gotta be the unintentionally funniest scene ever in an American movie. Peace.

It was supposed to be funny.

"Unintentionally"?

No, it was intentional.

I can't believe I responded to this junk post.

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