So did they have sex or not?
didnt quite get it... did spader and andie f uck or what? and i'm just making sure, they did end up together at the end, right?
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I think they may have beeped on that occasion or may not have. The point is that Ann is guilty because they weren't exactly holding hands.
I think that the moment when Graham opens his eyes is the moment he realises that he has finally achieved an erection in the presence of another person. However, that is not conclusive proof that they beeped. Maybe they didn't have any contraceptive arrangements in place and they did something else instead.
Yes, they seem to be in a relationship at the end.
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I've always thought it fairly obvious that they had sex.
shareI think they probably did, but I rather like not knowing for sure.
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u mean the characters or the actor/actress?
i would probably say both did, hehe...
In case you didn't notice in the credits or the "trivia about the movie" section, Mrs Spader was set decorator on the film and would probably have got to find out if her husband were up to something with Andie MacDowell.
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James Spader is married??
i thought he was single...
He was married from 1987 to 2004 and has two sons from that marriage. He and his wife apparently separated sometime in 2000. He is now with Leslie Stefanson, who appeared with him in The Stickup and Alien Hunter.
sad marriages never seem to last anymore nowadays...
shareBut everyone on here who has commented seems to think it is sad they broke up, ie taking the side of the wife and not of Ms Stefanson.
I think perhaps we are projecting something about our own experiences of heartbreak.
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We don't know who - or what - caused the break up of the marriage though, do we?
One of the posters on a now defunct thread had read (this being some years back) that he had signed the divorce papers but Victoria/Vickey/Vicki had not. He apparently told the interviewer that of course he was cool about that, he was on good terms with Victoria because of their children.
(Huh? Did he mean that it would be okay to ignore her or be nasty to her if one of them had been sterile or if they had chosen not to breed??? I don't think he meant that, but it goes to show how people can tie themselves up in knots with words.)
If this is accurate, then it very much suggests that she did not want to be divorced.
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I dunno. The IMDb board for JS says they divorced in 2004. Presumably the only ones who know the truth is the people involved, which is as it should be of course.
I always feel sorry when a relationship breaks up after a long period of time. It seems sad somehow but if they both decided to go their own ways but remain good friends that's probably the best outcome in such a situation. More than most of us could hope for.
Wishful thinking.
Unless it's inaccurate about her reluctance to sign on the dotted line.
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Unless it's inaccurate about her reluctance to sign on the dotted line.
Which it may well be, since there are so many takes out there on why the marriage ended and whether it has legally ended at all.
I thought imdb said they divorced in 2004!
Anyway, if my husband had been 888888ing a 34 year old for years and taking her to award ceremonies and stuff, I might just start to think I wasn't going to get him back. I would be very sad, of course.
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I thought imdb said they divorced in 2004!
It does - but I did a bit of research on another board and the general consensus seems to be that nobody, outside the people concerned, knows exactly what the present situation is. What seems to be the case is that they separated some time before he met his present lady but whether this separation was by mutual consent or whether he wanted it or she wanted it is an unknown.
Well, why would imdb say they divorced? What source is claiming that they did NOT divorce? Surely there is a public record of births, marriages and divorces so it would be a matter of public record whether or not they had been married, whether or not they had registered their names as parents of the 2 sons imdb claims they have and whether or not they were divorced.
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