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Heartwarming or depressing?


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As opposed to most of the comments I've seen about this movie, I see it as a chronicle of an abused girl's descent into madness. It's heartbreaking how this sweet and innocent little girl is continually mistreated at the hands of a terrible father, only to have her reindeer friend run off a cliff. The descent into insanity is complete at the end when she starts hearing and seeing things.

Is anyone with me?

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"La Ășnica iglesia que ilumina es la que arde."

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John was not a terrible father. His wife had just passed away and was under a great deal of stress. It's not easy raising two young kids alone on a farm.

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I agree with Alex... he wasn't a bad father... he was just a farmer who lost his wife and really had no idea how to take care of children... he was also extremely stressed because the family had no money... not to mention depressed that his wife just died! I think he was also terrified that he now had to raise his two children on his own when he clearly doesn't understand children at all (especially a young girl like his daughter)... I got the feeling that his wife took care of the children and he took care of the farm. It's also possible that his daughter reminded him of his dead wife, who he was subconsciously angry at for leaving him alone, and so he resented her for it... but that may be reading a little too much into things lol.

He may not have been the nicest guy in the world... but he certainly wasn't abusive... in fact it was quite obvious that he very much indeed LOVED his children... he was just a VERY SAD and lonely man who was dealing with a lot of sh*t, while at the same time trying to keep his family from falling apart.

To be honest, I kind of resent the OP's comment... it is an insult upon a very beautiful and touching story about the innocence of childhood.


****To the OP: You must be a very sad and jaded person if you can't see the beauty and magic in this story and I for one feel sorry for you.



R.I.P. Corey Haim

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Please point out the beauty and/or magic in a story like this. I fail to see it. A little girl's reindeer falls off a cliff. HOW is that in any way heartwarming? She starts imagining hearing sleigh bells... Tell me that's not a descent into madness right there.

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It didn't jump off a cliff and die. Unless AMC edited it, it *flys* and meets up with Santa :O



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It seems that most people who have seen this movie find it touching and ultimately heartwarming.

Maybe you should reconsider your position and contemplate the possiblity that your projecting your own unhappy childhood onto this movie.

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I have to second it with depressing. I never got any enjoyment out of this movie, I find it difficult to watch, I hate movies with mean or 'having a hard time raising your kids alone' fathers who only scream and yell all the time and everything's on the kid. Oh the whole town loves the story, well it's not until his daughter almost DIES that the father suddenly becomes nice, yeah that's some real Christmas cheer ain't it?

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I saw it when it first came out in theaters. I took my then little girl to see it. HORRIBLE Sad, awful movie. I just watched it again today on TV. Still HORRIBLE sad awful movie. Whether or not Prancer dies or flies it does not change the overall darkness of the movie.

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anyone with you?......I doubt it (watch the movie goof)

the father is over-protective as he is on his own....this translates to love if you watch the movie..

"descent into madness" (this sound like you may be experiencing some unaddressed emotional problems,...get a grip on your self

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Kind of middle of the road. Saw this in the program guide. Set the dvr for it. We watched it last evening with our 11 yr old daughter. We definitely felt it was more depressing than heartwarming.
As we watched for awhile, we kept thinking, what kind of movie is this? Is it going to get better? When Prancer runs through the house, my wife said, oh finally something to lighten the mood a little, only to be followed by the Dad grabbing his shotgun, ready to finish off Prancer.
There were sprinkled funny and light moments, many not so happy times. After watching this, my daughter said she was not too crazy about this movie.

The one line that made us laugh the most, is when the girl goes to break out Prancer, she tells her brother something like, "Now that Prancer is gone, there is nothing left in this town for me." At that point, my mind totally started drifting. As the kids are trying to bust Prancer out, I kept thinking, this would be great for Mystery Science Theater 3000/Cinematic Titanic. As we see the kids working on the cage, Tom Servo and Crow start making guitar noises, then singin Jailbreak from Thin Lizzy.

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This was a depressing movie from start to finish. I felt cheated and angered by the ending-- it completely destroyed the value and helpfulness this movie might have had for some people, especially children dealing with loss and grief. The story was a coming of age story about a girl who has lost her mother and is dealing with grief issues. She tries to escape from the pain of her situation by caring for the deer and believing in an imaginary world where Santa exists. At the end, she's finally come to terms with the reality of her losses, accepts that the deer is not one of Santa's deer, and reconciles with her father. They release the deer into the wild....that should have been the ending right there. Conflicts resolved. Instead we get the sappy scene of Santa in the sky? In other words, she's escaping back into an imaginary world.

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Sappy?

Only a soulless rhubarb would say such a treasonous thing!

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Personally I enjoyed the movie when I first saw it in theaters. I watched it many times over the rest of my teen years. I haven't seen it in a long time until now. I'm watching it now.

I will always remember though my friend who was with me at the movies when it came out found it very depressing. She came from a bad home. She kept quietly repeating "He is just like my dad. My dad would do that. My dad put up the tree Christmas eve night and tossed it out Christmas morning." She kept comparing her dad to the dad in this movie.

Personally I felt even at young teen that the father had his hands full. Like others said his wife was gone, he had no idea how to be at dad & he most likely was depressed. He has an out going little girl who today may be labeled ADD or ADHD. He has hands full as any new single father would.

I think he was doing his best and wanted to do his best. Also guessed maybe he was the one who punished the kids while most likely his wife was the caring loving parent they needed. After she was gone he had no idea how to handle every day kid problems. He just barked at the kids and over reacted due to depression.

I saw this in the theaters & it jumped off the cliff. I'm watching this now but I just went right to the ending to see what happens - He runs off down into the woods, leaps, they get to the edge of the cliff and the dad says he disappeared. The little girl thinks he jumped off the cliff and died but the dad says it would be a good meeting place for Santa. He encourages her & reminds her it is Christmas eve. He tells her to listen for bells & we hear them. Prancer met Santa.

I haven't seen this in years but that ending for me shows a father who learned to bond & love his daughter.

Not a depressing ending to me.

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Oh come on. It's at least partially about sacrifice for love's sake. Prancer has the chance to escape but forsakes that to stay by the side of the little girl who saved him.

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I also found the film terribly depressing, and I love what OP wrote about the final act being her leap into total madness inspired by the death of Prancer. There's another movie called Christmas Evil that follows similar beats. If you like disturbing Christmas movies like this one, check it out. It's great.

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I never considered if the ending was Prancer dying because he fell off the cliff or if he was really a flying reindeer or what, none of that ever occurred to me, but really by that time it was too late to even keep an interest.

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I read on this forum or somewhere that there is a scene that isn't on the dvd but is shown on tv and/or was shown on tv. It is at the end and shows Prancer flying to take his place as one of the reindeer "decorations" hanging above the street. So in this movie Prancer is real. There is also a "deleted" scene that shows Jessica and her Aunt meeting her best friend and her Mom at the shopping mall I believe.

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Yes, the film is sad. It's a sad situation the little girl and her family are in yet it is also heartwarming.

I too had a friend who had this cause her to feel depressed because she had lost her mother and lived with an abusive father at the time. She hated the movie and actually walked out leaving me in there alone. I followed her but she wanted me to enjoy it so she waited in the lobby for me. I felt bad for her but I really loved the movie.

I guess many kids from struggling homes identify with this. My home was far from perfect and abusive too but I didn't identify with the movie. I loved the little girls spunk and joy. I loved her faith in Prancer.

FYI he didn't jump off the cliff. He flew off. After all these years I have never heard anyone thought the reindeer jumped off the cliff. Wow.

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