Did you ever have to make up your mind? (spoinler)

I think the late wife (A. Huston) tells the antihero, "You never have been good with decisions. Let me be your manager." He should have taken the advise. Remember the adage, He who tries to sit on two chairs at once, will land on the floor.? He ended up with no one, but any single one would be quite good for him in one way or another. Ya gotta commit, buddy!

"When you throw dirt, you lose ground" --old proverb