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I wasn't around when John Lennon passed away. I don't even think my parents were married. Growing up my taste in music has changed, and pushed on backwards. I love all of John Lennon's music, and I was sad, like everyone else, that he wasn't around anymore.

I stumbled upon "Imagine" by accident, and it was mid-way through but I sat down to watch it anyway. I'm not a sentimental person, and it takes a lot to make me tear up. But at the end, when they lead to the inevitable report of his death, and then cut to him singing the song "Imagine" I just teared up.

Then I got angry. I wanted to murder the guy who killed him. And like a million other fans out there I just wondered why this would happen to such a peaceful guy. John Lennon didn't deserve to die that way.

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No he sure didn't - and do not worry for you are not alone. There are many of us who are upset and confused by his death. This film did capture the emotion of the tragedy pretty well - as I even teared up a bit.

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I just saw this movie yesterday, and I knew about most of the stuff that was contained within this movie, but to actually see and hear the man to for himself was very nice. He would be 65 years old this year and I bet you he would still be making music to this day. It's a shame that the world will never know what wonderful and exciting things he would have done next. I'm sure he would be saying alot about this "war" that's going on right now.

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"A Day in the Life" with the neverending chord, the photography, the crying fans, Sean, and the white room/black Lennon "Imagine."

Personally, I continued bawling for the next twenty minutes. The filmmakers did a terrific job with that sequence!!!

Gosh, I'm tearing up just thinking about it.

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A agree with you totally,AnonymousStranger. I wasn't even around in John's era, I dont even think my parents were together in 1980 either - but my taste in music is The Beatles esp. John.

I'm not very emotional, but I cried like a baby in this one. I totally balled from the sequence with all the pictures after he died to the credits. The pictures of the all the fans crying was so sad. ( Did anyone notice, in this one picture that they show of fans, there's this sea of white people and one black guy in the front whose holding a peace sign..?)

I actaully yelled "JOHN, WHY DIDNT YOU LISTEN TO THE QUIJA BOARD!?" to the ceiling afterwards. ( The whole thing about John getting a letter from the guy who said he found out that he'd be assassinated from a ouija board..)

Amazing how many other people still love John, eh? I'd love to talk about him some more, perhaps you e-mail me?

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"Better to burn out then fade away"

I would like to agree with you there but Lennon also only blasted Neil Young for that comment John saw and appreciated the value of growing older and unlike his contemporaries i'm sure he'd still be a strong public figure. I doubt he would be touring like Macca or all that but i am sure he would do talkshows and the like.

John Lennon would have changed and been a strong voice to my generation i am sure. I was not in the picture when he was murdered but seeing as Kurt Cobain the quote "Voice of Generation X" is no longer and we have yet to see a great voice for my Generation Y, I feel that Lennon is a better voice than anyone else right now. He spoke the truth with full sincerity and his flaws, though numerous seemed noble as a result.

When the world lost him they lost a great spirit who had a message of peace and love and understanding that could never die. Yoko Sean and Julian lost a husband and father who was finally past all the drugs, torment, and even the "Beatlemania". He was finally becoming happy as a man and that is more of the tragedy. Not the music he could have made.

Lennon, The Beatles, and all the figures and events from the sixties are more applicable to this new generation than ever. We see so many parallels the "war on terror" can be questioned just as much as the Vietnam "conflict".

I think we can all learn a thing or two from Lennon's words and music and I think that's the truest praise you can give to the "working class hero". His message lives on, so in a way, so does he

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I cry every time where they show his glasses fall - it's f--king terrible.

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im with all of you on that one. that is a very sad movie and it really shouldnt have happend to him. and i just finished watching it for about the 10th time.

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It was a terrible tragedy. John had his bastard moments like everyone else, but he was just getting past all that. He was getting his crap together, his solo music was becoming better and better, and a Fab Four reunion, however brief, may have been in the future. Now we'll never have it.

John is probably my favorite Beatle. I don't like his solo stuff as much as Paul's, but John had a sense of humor. He was the funniest, and always brought the most wit into the Beatle films.

John's gone. And now George is gone too, also under shakey circumstances. I worry about the other two.

Whether you like their music or not, you have to admit that The Beatles were a phenomenon that will never be repeated, and some of the best music of the 20th century came from their heads.

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Getting old sucks, but if you live long enough you'll discover that and become a "white-haired smelly old guy" yourself. Do yourself and the rest of us a favor and kill yourself now, rather than become a "white-haired smelly old guy".

F* you, from a "white-haired smelly old guy".

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"Man...Whats your problem "? It sounds to me like, you are the one thats agonizing about growing old. So...Do yourself a favor and put and end to your own pain ! Geezzz

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Kurt Cobain couldn't wear John Lennon's socks. If he hadn't killed himself nobody would even be talking about him now. John Lennon's legacy will continue forever, while all the Cobain's of the world just go by the window one at a time.

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Couldn't have said it better myself, dalefl. You've created an awesome quote there.

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I dunno... maybe the thing about John Lennon was like the thing with Kurt Cobain, you know... "Better to burn out then fade away". I mean, I do wish John Lennon did live a longer life, but wouldnt you rather remember him as the great singer rather than a white-haired smelly old guy who lives in New York?

Yes, but John Lennon didn't take his own life. He had it taken from him. Which is incomparable.




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Why hasn't Chapman been shanked yet???

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Because he's in solitary and no other inmates can get to him. Believe it, the minute somebody gets a chance to off this MF he will cease to exist.

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John had his bastard moments like everyone else, but he was just getting past all that. He was getting his crap together, his solo music was becoming better and better, and a Fab Four reunion, however brief, may have been in the future. Now we'll never have it.
I love the music the Beatles made and every time I hear a John Lennon track I think "the world was deprived of an outstanding musician." But ... (always a but) I doubt that John Lennon was "getting past all that" and I doubt even more that a "Fab Four reunion was ever on the way." John Lennon almost singlehandedly caused the Beatles to split; he had caused some of the most soul-destroying hurt and pain to his first wife and son as well as many genuine friends around him. Many people pointed the finger of blame at Yoko for his behaviour during the latter days of the Beatles but in fact John Lennon was almost entirely responsible for the bitterness and damage he caused. Yoko was manipulative but John was only too willing to be manipulated.
In death, we tend to "deify" someone who gave enjoyment to so many millions of people but turning a blind eye to his many foibles doesn't make much sense.
Anecdotes like John being nice to some kid are good for an emotional moment; but let's balance them by including anecdotes like the many times he rejected his own son; like the time when his wife returned from a "convenience" holiday abroad (convenient so that John could continue his relationship with Yoko) and was greeted by a light-hearted John in her house who blandly introduced her to Yoko - naked in her bed. What a pleasant man!
I respect him for his brilliance in songwriting and singing - but for nothing else.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

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I would hope that with making comments like these you would have at some point read Ray Coleman's "Lennon." But judging from what you say, it would sound like you have. All I can say is that people make mistakes. People make bad decisions, people treat other people cruelly and without care. Those are just some of the ugly traits that make us all human. I think that John realized the mistakes that he had made in life and was seeking to rectify them as he got older. He was determined to be there for Sean because he hadn't been there for Julian. He knew that and understood what a horrible mistake he had made. He learned from his history, however, and was determined not to repeat it. Certainly that doesn't excuse him from what happened, but you can't change the past. You can only change the behavior and not repeat the same mistakes over and over again.

As far as the comment about better to burn out than fade away, I'd have to agree. But John certainly didn't burn out. It wasn't like he overdosed (see Hendrix, Morrison, Joplin) or offed himself (Cobain). But I understand what you mean in terms of what he would be like today. I'm afraid that he would be pretty irrelevant today. I mean, does it matter what Paul and Ringo do? Does it matter what their contemporaries like the Stones and what's left of the Who do? No. He'd be in a state of semi-retirment, would probably record every now and again. I, of course, would have loved to hear what he would come up with, but at the same time I'm afraid I wouldn't have liked it. The reason that I say that is because if you really listen to Double Fantasy and Milk and Honey, his styles and tones had really changed. A lot of the songs sound a bit too bouncy and not really similar to what he had already done. Now I'm not saying that he should have stuck to the same old formula and tried to be doing endless sequels/remakes/retreads of old hits, but I think that he had gotten a bit too contemporary. What might he have done during the era of the hair bands, during the era of grunge, during the current era where rock music is basically an artifact of a bygone era? I would have been very interested to know, and I would be afraid it wouldn't live up to my expectations. That's why I've always been able to enjoy John and George's solo work as opposed to Paul's. I've just always felt there was nothing much to Paul's best solo work when compared to John's best or to George's All Things Must Pass album (the reason I highlight that album is because George never quite topped that). The thing that John's death did above all else was to basically canonize him for all times. For the people who were there, he'll always be the pinnacle of a very memorable era in both music and the world as a whole. For those of us, like me, who weren't, he's a sort of mythic figure, someone who represents that era we can never understand because we weren't there. For me, he's always made me wonder why there is nobody around today who compares to him on that level. John Lennon was truly one-of-a-kind.

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All I can say is that people make mistakes. People make bad decisions, people treat other people cruelly and without care. Those are just some of the ugly traits that make us all human. I think that John realized the mistakes that he had made in life and was seeking to rectify them as he got older. He was determined to be there for Sean because he hadn't been there for Julian. He knew that and understood what a horrible mistake he had made. He learned from his history, however, and was determined not to repeat it.
I wouldn't argue with one single word of this; nor with most of what followed relating to what place John Lennon might have carved out for himself were he still alive today.
I wasn't highlighting John Lennon's less salubrious moments in life just for the sake of making negative comments about somebody whose place in musical history is guaranteed in a positive way. I was simply trying to restore a balance to some of the earlier arguments; statements which practically deified a human being who had, rather like so many of us, a flawed character. Lennon's "problem" was (like almost every other celebrity) that his personal life, including all his foibles and pecadilloes, was open to public scrutiny and did not stand up well to it.
But he was a musician and an outstanding and innovative one. For that, his place in history is, as I've already said, guaranteed. There is no need to place him on other pedestals to which he has no right; and, indeed, to which he never actually made claim.

Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

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For someone who was not there you seem to have it figured out. Highly commendable, from someone who was there from the beginning. Thus we witness the intangible power, or "it", that The Beatles above all other artists have on the enlightened. Not everyone 'gets' it and some never will. But therein lies the unexplainable attraction and grip they have over us that can't be quantified.

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A minor correction... Yoko wasn't naked in the bed. She was sitting at the breakfast table with John... sipping coffe... in Cynthia's robe. Not good, but quite different than finding her naked in her bed.

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quite different than finding her naked in her bed.
By virtue of geographical location only, perhaps. I didn't say that they were caught having sex together, just that the implication was most certainly there. It is still there with your minor correction.
The issue was not so much where they were or what they were doing at the time; it was that John deliberately set things up so that Cynthia could see that he wanted her out. What a horrendous little tosspot he could be at times!

Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

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I understand it's all bad. Just pointing out the geographical error. ;-)

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I was around and I remember commenting a few days before his death that he was making a come-back. His songs and his album, Double Fantasy were making a comeback. He and Yoko were back together. And he had another kid. It seemed that after a long hard battle with drugs and perhaps with what we now might call bipolar disease, he was finally getting it together.

I don't think I reacted right away after I heard the news of his death. I heard it when I came home, and turned on the TV, then radio. I remember hearing The Larry King Show that night, when Larry was interviewing Milton Berle. Berle said he gave his sympathy to John's family, especially his "lovely wife." Given the fact that the universal reaction to Yoko was that she was at best, plain, that remark seemed very out of place.

However, hearing his music, and the one minute of silence on all of the radio stations, etc., did make me feel sad and it was at that time that I felt grief for him. I still have his last interview around here somewhere. I suspect John would be right in the middle of the music scene. He kept up with it to the last minute and was familiar with all of the contemporary bands. He was not the type you'd see in a purple, velvet suit, singing songs at some lounge in Las Vegas.

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YOU'RE ABSOLUTLEY RIGHT!!!!!!!

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I find it very sad that in a way John's history repeated itself. He has said that his mother died just as he was starting to re-establish a relationship with her. Ironically, Julian Lennon has said that his father died just as they were starting to rebuild their relationship.

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