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Was the stepfather secretly lusting after Stephanie?


In the film, the stepfather was always emphasizing the importance of the family. The “perfect” family he was looking for appeared to be of the patriarchal kind – due probably to his strict upbringing that he reluctantly admitted. However, in the film, there were hints or suggestions from time to time that he actually might have had sexual desire for his stepdaughter. At least Stephanie seemed to think so, and that made the situation even more frightening than it already was. Look especially at the following scenes.

1. When the stepfather gave the puppy to Stephanie as a gift, he put his hand on her shoulder. Stephanie felt uneasy and we see her shrinking away. Stephanie said more than once to other people that Jerry frightened her – and that was before she had any strong suspicions about his past. One might believe that – at least in Stephanie’s mind – she felt threatened by the presence of a strange man living in the house.

2. Jerry got tremendously upset when he saw Paul giving Stephanie a goodnight kiss and accused him of trying to undress and rape the girl! Both the mother and Stephanie knew that was not true, and the girl in her anger told Jerry that he was a "crazy creep hung up about sex". That was really interesting. Obviously, in Stephanie’s mind he had repressed sexual desires – but for whom? Since Jerry had already moved in with Susan, the obvious answer was her young and nubile daughter. It is reasonable to suggest that while Jerry appeared to be acting like an overly-protective father, in fact he was more like a jealous lover who got upset because the young Paul was about to get the girl that he himself could not possess – thanks to his own emphasis on “family values”.

3. At the end, Jerry was about to murder Stephanie when she was naked in the shower. That clearly paid homage to the shower scene in Hitchcock’s Psycho, where Norman Bates stabbed to death the woman he was forbidden to love. He muttered to himself that Stephanie was “a very bad girl” – an expression more often used by a cheated lover than a disappointed father. When Stephanie finally stabbed him, he grasped: “I loved you” just before he died. It was highly doubtful that it was fatherly love that he was talking about.

I believe any of the above could be debated, but to me the sexual undertones were unmistakable, and that made the relationship between the stepfather and Stephanie in the film multilayered and far more complex than it otherwise would have been. Unfortunately, in the remake, the stepdaughter character was changed into a rebellious son who had attended military school, and thus one element that made the original so interesting was lost.

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To me, his only goal was having the perfect family.

I never suspected any 'lust' for Stephanie or anything improper really (aside from him being a psycho killer when things turned bad - lol)

Just my $0.02.

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You make some very valid points and place a new perspective on the movie. However, I didn't think that the father had a thing for the daughter. I just thought he was a very over-the-top kind of guy, which explained the "extra" he did with the daughter. Once again, you make some good points, though.

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I don't think he had a thing for Stephanie, or for any of the children OR even the women he was married to. He was searching for the perfect family ONLY. He wasn't after anything sexual. Just look at his expression when he's having sex with Susan. He didn't look like he was enjoying it at all - in fact it just looked like something "he had to do" as a husband. Everything he did was in search of the perfect family...and well when he was disappointed the only option was to kill them all and start over with another family.
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He didn't have a thing for Stephanie my friend. I noticed the scenes you pointed out as well but I really don't think it was about that at all.

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I don't think he lusted after Stephanie either. He was a delusional wacko who just wanted "a perfect family" like in 1950s sitcoms but he went psycho when things didn't go his way and wiped out families and moved on to try again.

However, I always felt the sequence where he surprises Stephanie and says "Hi, Pumpkin!" before attempting to stab her came off as a bit creepy in a pervy way.

But other than that little tidbit (which is purely my opinion) I don't think he had sexual feelings for his stepdaughter.

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I never got the impression that Jerry lusted after Stephanie. He barely had sexual interest in his WIVES!
I got the impression he enjoyed kissing them, but that was all.

He seemed to catch himself when feeling anything deeper, as it was likely considered *wrong* in his twisted mind.

Kissing & hugging is as far as any 'perfect 1950s' sitcom ever got, and this seemed to be his goal so sex did not interest him.



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No, not even a little.

I know this sounds really mean but I have to say it--the OP kinda sounds like so much of the population today, reading WAY too much into benign physical interaction. This sounds like the kind of person who would report someone at work to HR if they innocently patted them on the back or casually touched their arm or something and meant NOTHING by it. Seriously.


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I know this sounds really mean but I have to say it--the OP kinda sounds like so much of the population today, reading WAY too much into benign physical interaction. This sounds like the kind of person who would report someone at work to HR if they innocently patted them on the back or casually touched their arm or something and meant NOTHING by it. Seriously.
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The answer is no. He wasn't lusting after Stephanie.

The mentioned scenes are not about that. You're reading too much into them.

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On your 1st point, she's a girl who's father died recently and really wasn't ready for the situation she was in so she was really uncomfortable and standoffish around him.

The 2nd, he's a sociopath clearly trying to mimic something he's not completely sure how to handle. So he goes to the extreme that he thinks a real dad would.

The 3rd. It's not that he's going to kill her when she's naked it's it's that she got in the shower so fast he had no time while she was clothed. He didn't purposely wait for her to undress then go for her, plus even if he did it would've been for a easier element of surprise, plus less chance for screaming that could alert the neighbors.

Where do you get this bad girl is for cheated lovers thing?

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