I know it's strange to say, but this film gives me hope

I probably just have vastly different emotional reactions to things than most people, but rather than see Judith as pathetic or in a hopeless situation, I quite admired her for her manners, her faith, and for how deeply she felt things – how deeply she loved.

She was a woman of great morals, and also a woman of great passion – who knew how to enjoy herself – even if that meant a little nip now and then. I admire that! Just like her friend said – everyone has a little nip now and then – in other words, we all have to let down her hair some time. Yes, one could say she had a bit of a drinking problem, but we all have our problems. If it wasn't bad, it would be something else. And I think that she handled her problem quite well, because she tried not to get carried away with it. It isn't her fault that the parents of her pupils were so merciless and rigid.

So yes, I understand that there were consequences for some of her actions that caused her life to be more difficult – but her life was not without its beauty. I'm surprised at how many people watched this movie and saw nothing but a bleak, dim picture of a woman. To me, the saddest aspect of the film was not about the money, not about her drinking, not about her aunt dying – but about her loss or doubt in faith. For someone who was so strong and safe as the character of Judith was, for her to suddenly start doubting her faith is devastating to think about – because the sense of emptiness must be enormous. But there were bits of hope scattered throughout this film – even in the bleakest scenes.

In the know the character of Mr. Madden was deeply flawed himself – and I know his motives weren't very good to begin with, but there's still something so indelibly likable about him when it comes to his interactions with Judith. Also, the fact that at his age, he still dreams and still has big goals and plans for his life is very admirable and gives me such a sense of enthusiasm for my own life! The message I get when watching this movie is that life may deal you a tough hand, but with faith, kindness, hope, and big dreams, you can survive it – and maybe even find a kindred soul to share it with. And I think that's a beautiful message.

As I said, this movie gives me hope!

Please excuse typos/funny wording; I use speech-recognition that doesn't always recognize!