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Men are such bad cheaters

posted 7 years ago by lakicia
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He sleeps with her first in his house, so she knows where he lives. Then, he doesn't ONLY have sex with her, he's essentially dating her while his wife is away...dancing, running in the park (in public nonetheless for anyone to see him and tell his wife). And dating makes the woman have even more feelings for him than if they were just having sex.

If this were about a female adulterer, she would've either had sex at the guy's home or in a hotel far from where she lives and under the guy's name and not hers so it wouldn't show up on a credit card statement. And if she were really paranoid about being inconspicuously recorded by the guy for later blackmail, she would've asked a friend to book the hotel and check in, and then she'd get the key from the friend and go to the room where she'd then meet the guy. She wouldn't be seen in public with him at all, and there would be no dating, only sex.

not that i've done this before. lol this is just how women think. we're much better cheaters. that's why we're never caught.

[–] Born_Tomorrow 7 years ago

Men are just stupid as hell when it comes to the opportunity to have sex. They act like they loose their minds.

I woke up this way...

[–] greenebean-33615 7 years ago

Actually, it was her place

[–] AustralienneLee 7 years ago

He didn't take her to his house at all.

[–] highpriestess32 7 years ago

He sleeps with her first in his house

Wrong. Alex took Dan back to her apartment.

Then, he doesn't ONLY have sex with her, he's essentially dating her while his wife is away...dancing, running in the park (in public nonetheless for anyone to see him and tell his wife). And dating makes the woman have even more feelings for him than if they were just having sex.

Dan had no intentions of "dating" Alex. He was only up for a one night stand. It was Alex who pestered and pestered him that Sunday morning over the phone making him feel obligated to spend the day with her. She indicated falsely that she only wanted a discreet one night stand in order to lead him into a false sense of security and she then proceeded to pull out all of the stops to "make" him fall in love with her. She packed a lot in that Sunday (as well as the dancing the night before). She wanted to show him what he might be nissing at home - the fun with the dog, the cooking, the wine, the operatic score on the cassette tape, the sex...

not that i've done this before. lol this is just how women think. we're much better cheaters. that's why we're never caught.

You may finally have a relevant point there  I too have never cheated but find men easy to hoodwink. Some men have erratic minds and are not perhaps as devious as we can be LOL! Many cheaters get caught very easily because men aren't always so good at covering their tracks. For example, my ex went out to town once and left his Facebook page open. Suspecting as I had done some dodgy "cloak and dagger" shennanigans I read his PMs and he was flirting with a number of women. I never have to worry with my current partner to whom I am engaged. He is a rare find and he dotes on me. But yes, I have been on the end of cheaters and they are so bad at hiding it lol 

"These days you have to boil someone before you can sleep with them"