I was very aggravated with Omar at times, namely in Johnny's apartment after being told he needs to marry Tania. He was obviously freaked out and upset but he said some gross things. But who hasn't said regrettable things in a fight? The number one thing that I keep coming back to with Omar is the way he was when he spotted Johnny (after their seperation.) He stopped the car & was just in awe. He left Saleem and his wife. He braved skinheads. All he wanted to do was get to Johnny. Then when Johnny they go off together right then and there, Omar beamed. After their kiss in the car, he went home & drank some vodka & did the "How did I get so lucky?" dance. These things made him feel so happy that he got cocky. But he did shield Johnny during the fight (even though Johnny was the infamous pugilist.) I didn't see his "you're dirty / beautiful" comment as a bad thing. Not at all. I think he was just overcome with geeky, gushing love / attraction / lust. While Johnny seemed to be feeling like they were doomed & that he was only trouble same as always. Irregardless, they resolved it without much trouble so it wasn't too big a deal for either of them. Omar's geeky gush in that moment reminded me of what his dad had said about Omar having a bit of hero worship where Johnny's concerned. That's a telling detail when looking at their dynamic. That's why Omar felt the need to play power games because, in his heart, he felt like it was too good to be true. He knew how happy he was and he wanted to play it cool. His worst behavior came right after Johnny left the laundry. Omar didn't know why -- only that Johnny had run off with his friends. He'd just had his uncle twisting his head around about marriage & money; while Saleem was twisting Johnny's head around. Also, I
think Johnny's comment to Tania about he couldn't leave Omar -- "not now....don't even ask...you haven't touched him" is important. He's saying, "I can't leave him now. Not now that I've touched him. You can't know what it is to touch him." That
is powerful. That implies that there's something especially "touching" about intimacy with Omar. And we do see many glimpses of that sweet, caring, eager soul. With his father; on the phone w/Johnny;
his hope over the launderette. In fact, the whole story rests on Omar's initial hope. He stops that car & approaches Johnny. He pursues him. He offers to share the opportunity that he's so excited about. Johnny's hope grows out of Omar's hope
and Johnny later sustains them.
One more thing -- Omar's dad tells Johnny to steer Omar towards an education, urging him to use his influence. I think Omar's dad knows a great deal about Omar's love for Johnny.
Personally, I enjoy seeing flawed
characters who are struggling to connect & are made better via that connection. I saw "I Killed My Mother" today too (Xavier Dolan's teenage directorial debut) and it was similar in that regard. An unplanned theme for today.
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