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Another cheating whore playing the victim.


That is just the norm anymore.

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Yeah, I know! She basically gets pissed at him cause he was upset. Like he was in the wrong. Well, OF COURSE he was upset! She should've spent the rest of the movie trying to win his trust back.. not the other way around.

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Yeah, except she didn't cheat on Walter. Max got Anna sloppy drunk after dinner, and told her the next morning that they not only had sex, but it was so wild the police came. Anna remembers nothing of the evening but believes Max. Of course, this turns out to be a fabrication by Max in order to break Walter and Anna up so he could get back with her. Later, the tiny bit of conscience he possesses causes him to fess up when he realizes how miserable Anna is.

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The fact that she truly did not cheat is absolutely irrelevant. As far as she knew she DID cheat on him.

And one more thing to keep in mind is that whatever happened she did willingly get drunk with Max and she did sleep in his bed. All of that even without sex is inappropriate if you're in a relationship with someone else--I'd love to hear anyone say that they would be fine with their spouse or significant other getting plowed and spending the night with their ex, in the ex's bed even if sex didn't occur. I don't think most people would be okay with that.


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A: She did NOT voluntarily sleep in his bed. Nor did she agree to get drunk with him. She agreed to have dinner/drinks with him, and likely due to her current in-debt state, gratefully accepted a few too many free drinks - that doesn't make the action right, but your statement of facts isn't remotely accurate. At no point, in the story, does she ever agree to sleep in his bed (nor does Max ever SAY she agreed to it) or even get drunk with him. She agreed to have a meal and a few drinks, nothing else. Obviously she was wrong for letting herself get that drunk, but considering how depressive their situation was at the time, it's not that surprising. You might as well argue that a woman too drunk to consent to sex, consented to it, just by drinking in the first place. Waking up in a bed does not constitute agreeing to sleep in it.

B: To the ops misguided point... She does NOT get pissed at him, because he's pissed that she cheated. She gets pissed, because he INSISTS that if she did make a mistake, he'd rather she admitted it, and they can discuss it rationally and move past it together. He practically harangues her, to confess if something happened, and not to leave him unaware of the truth. And THEN, when she does admit it, he turns into a raving lunatic, calling her a whore in similar fashion to the way the OP misogynistically accuses her of being one, because he thinks he's in a position to judge a single poor choice. He doesn't discuss it rationally, he doesn't even discuss forgiveness or working through it, he turns into a knuckle-dragging douche bag, calling her names and accusing her of even more than she did admit to, in a fit of moral superiority, that he SPECIFICALLY promised her he WOULDN'T engage in. And then, in front of others, he openly calls her a slut and a drunk, without the slightest concern for how juvenile it is (though she certainly gets as juvenile as he does, in that sparring match)

That's why she's pissed, and why they end up separated - not because she cheated, but because when he asks her to be honest and an adult about it, he acts like a petulant child. That's why the resolution begins when he says he doesn't care she cheated - though I'm sure it would've been resolved by him simply apologizing for being the hypocrite he was, during that fight.



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I forgot about this post. It has been forever but I will respond anyway...

She did NOT voluntarily sleep in his bed.


I never said she "voluntarily" slept in his bed.

Nor did she agree to get drunk with him.


Again, I never said she AGREED to get drunk as though he asked her to do so. I said she "willingly" got drunk with him because she DID. She agreed to have dinner and partake in alcoholic drinks with him. He certainly did not drug her or force wine down her.

Obviously she was wrong for letting herself get that drunk, but considering how depressive their situation was at the time, it's not that surprising.


Whatever her situation was she still made the decision to go out and have dinner AND drink with Max.

You might as well argue that a woman too drunk to consent to sex, consented to it, just by drinking in the first place.


They never even had sex. She did not consent to or resist anything because nothing happened. But let's say they did. If two people--BOTH people--are completely drunk and they both partake in sex then how is it only the man's responsibility or fault? That is such a typical and silly attitude for a woman to have. Like women are SO stupid and helpless that they have no control over themselves whatsoever. I don't know whether you realize that you actually do not help women at all by having that attitude.

Waking up in a bed does not constitute agreeing to sleep in it.


Once again, I never said she "agreed" to sleep in his bed. You need to work on comprehension skills. Or at least work on not misquoting people.

...he INSISTS that if she did make a mistake, he'd rather she admitted it, and they can discuss it rationally and move past it together. He practically harangues her, to confess if something happened, and not to leave him unaware of the truth. And THEN, when she does admit it, he turns into a raving lunatic, calling her a whore in similar fashion to the way the OP misogynistically accuses her of being one, because he thinks he's in a position to judge a single poor choice. He doesn't discuss it rationally, he doesn't even discuss forgiveness or working through it, he turns into a knuckle-dragging douche bag, calling her names and accusing her of even more than she did admit to, in a fit of moral superiority, that he SPECIFICALLY promised her he WOULDN'T engage in. And then, in front of others, he openly calls her a slut and a drunk, without the slightest concern for how juvenile it is (though she certainly gets as juvenile as he does, in that sparring match)


Yes...I am certain that if the situation were reversed she would have been a calm, rational adult and not at all upset that he banged someone else (as far as they knew). Additionally, I am sure that if your significant other said he had something to tell you but made you promise not to get mad and you agreed and then he told you he f v c ked another woman you would be very calm, rational and understanding. After all--you promised not to get mad! 😁



It wasn't me who was murdered, was it?

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Or at least work on not misquoting people.


that's the cornerstone of a juicy thread on IMDB though.

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well, SOMEONE'S heart has been cleaved in twain

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Yes but PLEASE. If your husband or wife or boyfriend or girlfriend said to you "I have to tell you something but you have to promise not to get mad" and you promise then they tell you they banged someone else...you're telling me that you would NOT be mad because you promised not to? That's silly! And, once again, regardless of whether she did or did not f v c k Max in the end, she believed that she did and she told Walter that she did. He never even knew that she didn't until after all was said and done. It was even worse of her to not tell him the truth once she discovered it never actually happened. She's a raging biotch and most people would feel completely differently about it had the situations been reversed.


It wasn't me who was murdered, was it?

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She didn't cheat on him. She thought she cheated on him, but she found out that her ex-husband was lying to her in a desperate attempt to get her back.

But I do agree that she was out of line for playing the victim when they both thought that she cheated on him. Instead of pouting, sulking, and throwing a temper tantrum, she should have apologized for lying to him as well as cheating on him ... since she was under the impression that she had, in fact, cheated on him.

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She did not cheat. The guy lied about it. When she thought she cheated her behavior was disgusting. I don't understand how she could have acted as if he was the bad guy.

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A weak plot point. A woman usually/always knows whether she's had sex or not.

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No, no they don't. Exactly how would that work? Do you think confetti explodes from the vagina?

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Residual mucous secretions, both female and male.

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