My mother is the same way with cats. I grew up being told I was allergic to cats and of course believed it. I was told it all the time even when I went to dr appointments for a cold or flu she'd say things like "I told her to not go to her friend's house because they have a cat, she's allergic." I would go to the friend's house and love all over the cat, I'd never sneeze or anything. But I believed my mom.
I married and my husband had a cat. My mom, of course, warned me but the cat was an inside-outside one & I did fine when we were dating. After we married and I moved in with my husband I had no issues allergy wise either. I thought it was weird but didn't think much about it. My mom of course still complained nonstop and asked me over the phone about the darn cat and warned me I'd be sick and so on. Then about 6-7yrs later we got two kittens. Yet again I heard it all, how I'm allergic and so on.
Long story short, I'm not allergic at all. Eventually, my mom admitted it to me saying, "I just said that because I hate cats." Go figure. That's my mom, I have millions of odd narcissistic lies and stories she's told me & others all my life. lol So this mom is more of a gem compared to mine. After being married 25+ years I've owned a total of 6 cats. I'm Dr. confirmed not allergic too. Just bad sinus issues. But, guess what??? Owning cats keeps her away. That's a plus lol
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