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Bender's backdown - pure fear,or restraint?


I saw this movie years ago when I was a teen. I always assumed Vernon's "take a shot" offer was genuine, and that Bender backed down purely out of fear.

I watched the scene again and see it a bit different now. Vernon's offer seems like entrapment, and I wonder if Bender is also apprehensive for that reason, as well as being afraid of fighting?

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On the one side, it's very much entrapment and he's already trapped.
Bender knows this and knows that Vernon could do anything he wanted, with complete confidence that no-one would take Bender's word to the contrary.
Bender's only choice is to do nothing and wait it out, before looking to see what retaliations are available to him thereafter.

On another side, Bender is also scared.
Vernon has put the pair of them in the exact same situation that Bender usually finds himself in with his father. Big strong older man, authority figure, essentially bullying the kid and beating him down. Bender is genuinely expecting to get a kicking here and Vernon has no tangible reason not to do it, if he feels like it.

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Watching that scene again, I genuinely am scared for Bender. I mean here we have a teacher/principal/authority figure who has put the both in them in a situation where there are not witnesses. They are completely alone. And back in the day if a teacher crossed a line with a student, most other adults would be in support of the teacher, and say the kid was asking for it - no matter even if the teacher crossed a line. Vernon could do anything he wanted to to Bender. And I think Bender knows this and therefore knows to just keep his mouth shut and not give Vernon what he wants. If he were to hit Vernon, Vernon could knock the crap out of him and then tell the police, etc. that Bender attacked him and Bender would be the one in trouble.

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I think it's nicely ambiguous. You can read it as Bender being afraid, you can read it as Bender not being violent (he was more of a class clown who used his mouth to harass people, he wasn't making physical threats), you can read it as Bender being afraid and it demonstrating Bender doesn't actually fight back against his abusive father as he claimed to impress the others at lunch, and you can read it as Bender being smart, recognizing what he was trying to do, and not taking the bait, understanding Vernon was trying to get him to swing on him so he could get him expelled and/or arrested.


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I think it's nicely ambiguous.
I think so too. Bender doesn't back down because of fear ... he sizes the situation up and makes a conscious choice. Vernon's probably had as much of Bender as Bender has of Vernon. 🐭

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Bender was just a big mouth who couldn't back it up. He went down in two seconds in the fight with Andy.

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Agreed. I can't stand him, and thus I ultimately could not swallow the movie as it expected us to sympathize with him by the end.

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Andy was a wrestler, he wrapped him up and put him down... But the essence of this film is to show that every character had layers. They weren't just "Big Mouths" or "Nerds" etc... You missed the point.

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Bender was just a big mouth who couldn't back it up. He went down in two seconds in the fight with Andy.


Back it up with what? He never threatens to hurt anyone in the entire film. This is kind of the part that baffles me. His father physically abuses him. He speaks out his ass because he feels nothing but resentment, bitterness, and pain on the inside.

On the other hand, Andy physically abused another student and publicly humiliated him.

He's a jerk who likes to tease people.

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Remember the fight with Andy? Bender pulls out the knife, like he's a tough guy now (after immediately losing the fight) because he had the knife.

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Remember the fight with Andy? Bender pulls out the knife, like he's a tough guy now (after immediately losing the fight) because he had the knife.

That was both a psychological reassertion of his own sense of security, as well as more intimidation of Andrew. Possibly also a cover-up of his failure just prior.

Pulling the knife makes Bender feel safe, as does showing it off to the others.
Showing Andrew that he could have been stabbed if Bender so chose is a dominance display.



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Andrew would have taken the knife from him just as easily as he beat him in the fight.

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Andrew would have taken the knife from him just as easily as he beat him in the fight.

He'd likely catch a good couple of slashes, even if Bender wasn't serious about using it. Just about anyone with a modicum of effort can land knife blows against an unarmed opponent, even by accident.

Knives are seriously *beep* dangerous - Despite having studied several martial arts and been trained in 'knife defense' techniques in the Army, I'd *still* not ever suggest anyone try tackling a knife bare-handed. That's just begging for injury.

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Andrew would have taken the knife from him just as easily as he beat him in the fight.


He probably would have, Bender is not the type of person who would fight back as we've seen at least twice in the film.

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That was both a psychological reassertion of his own sense of security, as well as more intimidation of Andrew. Possibly also a cover-up of his failure just prior.

Pulling the knife makes Bender feel safe, as does showing it off to the others.
Showing Andrew that he could have been stabbed if Bender so chose is a dominance display


Most definitely. I doubt he'd ever actually engage in a fight with anyone or ever has. You have to wonder why he's never chosen to use that threat against his father. I guess it's easier with a stranger.

It's typical (or in this case atypical) Alpha male BS.

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Remember the fight with Andy? Bender pulls out the knife, like he's a tough guy now (after immediately losing the fight) because he had the knife.


1. Andy had him on the ground in a head lock and initiated the fight between himself and Bender.

2. That was such a bluff and everyone in the room knew it.

3. And he put the knife down in the end. Bender never would have fought him in the first place. He took the knife out to prove to Andy that if he needed to he could defend himself with a weapon.

When one initiates a physical fight with someone else, all is fair. Andy started it, serves him right.

I'm not saying Bender is an upstanding citizen or anything like that, he's a creep, a perv, an obnoxious rude punk. But he's not a bully. People like Andy are bullies.



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He never threatens to hurt anyone in the entire film


what does the KNIFE
mean
to
YOU???

and he DID threaten with that knife.

Andy physically abused another student and publicly humiliated him


and Carl Lee killed two crackas in cold blood when they were going into the courthouse for raping Carl's 10 year old daughter.

but why split hairs...

temporary insanity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! srsly, bender's father physically abusing Bender DOES NOT COMPARE to Andy being coyly encouraged to 'fool around but don't get caught' by his douchebag father. back then, verbal abuse wasn't abuse. Andy, Allison, Claire and Brian all had it worse than Bender. Bender had physical proof that his father was a prickhole. everyone else had hearsay.


Reading the paper can really be depressing. Mr. Dithers fired Dagwood again.

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what does the KNIFE
mean
to
YOU???

and he DID threaten with that knife.



I'm a woman. We don't do fighting. Especially not Bullsht alpha male posturing. however, if someone had me on the ground in a headlock and I happened to have a knife...I would probably brandish it out and insist that the other person let me go.

If you can say that you'd do the same in such a situation, maybe I could see your point.

Andy started a fight. Now I'm not the type of person who believes it's ok to bring a knife to a gunfight, but we're dealing with a fcked up victim of physical abuse. Throwing Bender into a corner or having him in a headlock opens all sorts of *beep* in that dysfunctional mind.

Knife=protection.

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WHAT??? what does being a woman have to do with fighting or not fighting? I am also a woman who works in a poor/bad area of the South Bronx. and women are worse with bullying and being physically abusive than men.

so you and your 'women don't do fighting' IGNORANT thought is moot.

bring a knife to a gunfight


oh, you should just shut up and walk away right now... talk about off topic... WHERE IS ANDY'S GUN???


MORON.

Reading the paper can really be depressing. Mr. Dithers fired Dagwood again.

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WHAT??? what does being a woman have to do with fighting or not fighting?
I am also a woman who works in a poor/bad area of the South Bronx. and women are worse with bullying and being physically abusive than men.


Great. I will explain it to you slowly and carefully, so that you understand.

In the city, I'm sure you see all sorts of things. I know, I grew up in the city. so you don't have to throw around your South bronx cred in order to make a point here.

Culturally women are not taught to "be a man" and fight a battle. Women are usually discouraged. Of course, the female trash (typically found in the inner city, but certainly not limited to it), will certainly throw a btch down every once in awhile if they are that angry.

Women may need to protect themselves from rapists and predators, but we are obviously not talking about this situation.

The situation between Andy and Bender is not the same as a women being attacked by a rapist.

Bender brandished the knife to make a point and to appease his male ego (which had just been taken down by Andy). If had nothing to with a threat.

oh, you should just shut up and walk away right now... talk about off topic... WHERE IS ANDY'S GUN???


MORON.


Wow...first of all...is this some of that "poor" trashy South Bronx coming out?

If someone had me in a headlock, I would pull my knife out. I don't care what you'd do, I'm not interested in you. I am interested in protecting myself. But I'm sure that if some girl was beating down on you (for reasons I absolutely can't imagine!!), you're telling me that you would just lie there and take it??

You can't call it a blind threat when someone else attacks another person. That is moronic. Bender is supposed to just sit there while Andy beats him into the ground according to your logic.

How on earth do you survive in the South Bronx again??

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and Carl Lee killed two crackas in cold blood when they were going into the courthouse for raping Carl's 10 year old daughter.


What???

....Talk about off topic....


temporary insanity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! srsly, bender's father physically abusing Bender DOES NOT COMPARE to Andy being coyly encouraged to 'fool around but don't get caught' by his douchebag father. back then, verbal abuse wasn't abuse. Andy, Allison, Claire and Brian all had it worse than Bender. Bender had physical proof that his father was a prickhole. everyone else had hearsay.


::eye roll::

Rich people problems.

I'm pretty certain your father physically burning a cigar in your arm is much worse than feeling the need to comply with your father's image of you.

Andy wanted his father to approve of him, so he decided to pick a weak, skinny kid, and physically abuse him.

Bender likes to get people riled up.

Personally I see the former as much more serious as the latter.




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mentioning another movie is OFF TOPIC to you???? god, you are weird.

the only abuse that existed back in the 80's was the physical. and even then, much was considered discipline.

you are forgetting that this movie was made back in 1985ish before verbal abuse was considered abuse. to be honest, parents still verbally abuse their kids to the point of telling three year olds to stand up like a man and stop your bullshi7 bawling.

I don't think Andy REALLY did it for his father's approval, I think he just snapped.

what makes you think I have not been physically abused? or mentally? or verbally? or pretty much all other abuses their are right now?




stop thinking this with a 2010 mentality.



Reading the paper can really be depressing. Mr. Dithers fired Dagwood again.

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Agreed. Bender was all talk and no action. He got his butt kicked by Andy and almost peed his pants when Vernon threatened him. A true punk in a denim jacket.

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Mostly fear. I mean he is just a kid, and this adult is cramming it at him.

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I agree, as an adult, it takes on a complete different aspect. I think you can see fear but also confusion in Bender. He was TRAPPED as was said already. I love this film for so many reasons... That scene is a powerful one. I like this topic

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Fear and cowardice.

When really pushed into a situation where he can't simply bluff himself out of it Bender has always backed down.

What happened in the closet was a good leasson for Bender.

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Fear and cowardice.

When really pushed into a situation where he can't simply bluff himself out of it Bender has always backed down.

What happened in the closet was a good lesson for Bender.

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Fear

The look on his face says fear to me. I don't read anything else on his face during this scene. I can't see him thinking to himself, "This is my chance. I really wanna beat Vernon down. Easy, John. It's a no win situation. Don't do it." Never once in that scene does it look like he wants to punch Vernon but is restraining himself.

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