Is Eastenders ageist?


They seem to be trying to frame Denise's decision to give away her baby as some type of feminist or progressive victory, but for women of a certain age, it seems to be saying that once you reach 40 you're no longer fit to be a mother.

Women get enough of this crap from the medical establishment. Now Eastenders is pushing the whole "you're too old to be a mother" narrative.


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They appeared to have it in for forty something characters, tonight: Ian fell asleep in the Vic and he very seriously blamed it on getting old...

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Excuse me, I'm 44 and I've dozed off in my chair a lot.

Why are you here if you haven't seen the movie yet?

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I'm only slightly younger than you and I can't sleep at all...

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I can I sleep like a baby.

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And its a real bugger when it happens on the Motorway as well. :D

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EastEnders is the least ageist show on Earth (not meant positively) I've never liked Denise but her character's motivation for giving away her baby is the delusion she can aspire to be more than what she is which in itself is unrealistic - especially since Denise has no fire or passion whatsoever to thrive in the corporate world.

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I'm 100% for mature students and second chances, but I'm not sure what a fortysomething is going to do with an English Literature degree.

I love English Lit, but it's hardly a highly in-demand qualification and it's a hard enough struggle to get a decent job with a professional degree from a good university, even if you're under 40.

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Maybe she just wants to achieve something (getting a degree/qualifications). I don't think she actually wants a career out of it.

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Or maybe she just doesn't want the hassle of having to raise another screaming brat all over again, wish she'd just have the guts to say it. I wouldn't blame her at all, if I was to have kids I wouldn't want to have to redo the job all over again several years after my adult kids have flown the nest. Let the woman enjoy her freedom!

and good on her for disowning kim, that's two whiney brats she's free from looking after




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If she wasn't on Libby's case begging her not to have an abortion we wouldn't much care.

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Or maybe she just doesn't want the hassle of having to raise another screaming brat all over again, wish she'd just have the guts to say it. I wouldn't blame her at all, if I was to have kids I wouldn't want to have to redo the job all over again several years after my adult kids have flown the nest. Let the woman enjoy her freedom!

and good on her for disowning kim, that's two whiney brats she's free from looking after


Well said, cops!

I get so sick of the fact that admitting you don't want the hassle of dealing with kids seems to be taboo. When will the world wake up? Not everyone sees procreation through rose-tinted specs. It's a tough, overpopulated world we live in.

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If she hadn't have been too far gone she more than likely would have aborted it



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Women get enough of this crap from the medical establishment. Now Eastenders is pushing the whole "you're too old to be a mother" narrative.


I couldn't agree more. Here I am 36 years old, having my 7th child this summer and you wouldn't believe the comments that I have received about being "too old" to have a baby.
I've also been told that I'm making the wrong choice by not having an amniocentesis done.
Denise's baby came out healthy and yet she thinks that he will have a better life without her? Theoretically wouldn't an older mother be better for a child than a young one?
I feel like I have more to give my children now, than I did my older children, which I had in my twenties. Also Denise is surrounded by people willing to help and support her...her sister Kim, Patrick, her daughter Libby, her friend Carmel, etc.
I don't think EE thought this storyline through very well. When Denise's son becomes an adult, Denise won't even be 70 years old. So what is wrong with that?

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I'm 104 and am offended.

i like trumpets and bookmarks.......

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