council24 said, <<I completely disagree with coolbluegreen.>>
What exactly do you disagree with?
council24 said, <<I grew up in the 80's and when I got the paddle in school, I didn't make the same mistake twice.>>
Do you think any mistake you made could have been handled without paddling you?
council24 said, <<And I don't recall schools ever abusing that power.>>
Ah, but countless lawsuits and the anecdotal evidence of friends say that they certainly do. Ever read Oliver Sacks? He has written about what corporal punishment -- that was utterly abused -- did to him. Google him.
council24 said, <<You make it sound like teachers are just smacking kids around for the fun of it.>>
Some might, if they had that power.
council24 said, <<Every kid I ever remember getting the paddle deserved it!>>
How do you know? Really? You were a kid. Furthermore, you do not know every kid who got the paddle, nor were you qualified to say who "deserved it".
council24 said, <<And the way I've seen some kids behave today, I'm sure some of them could use a good paddling to get them on track.>>
If a "good paddling gets them on track,>> how come so many convicted felons come from backgrounds where corporal punishment was common? People have been flogged for centuries -- and crime has always been with us. It doesn't work and it's not necessary. http://www.jstor.org/pss/354017
council24 said, <<Better than giving them meds and trying to be their "best friend", which seems to the answer for today's parenting techniques.>>
Let me tell you something -- I have worked for the past 15 years in some inner-city schools you would be afraid to enter. I have never, EVER, found a kid I couldn't manage and I sure as heck didn't need corporal punishment to do it. If you are using corporal punishment, it just means you don't know a better, more effective way to discipline. I get kids to graduate, council24. Kids go to freaking COLLEGE because (in part) of the way I manage them and I need nothing more than my words. If you need something more, I suggest very strongly you take a parenting class. Furthermore, if you hit something vulnerable, something that cannot fight back, you are an abuser. It's illegal for one citizen to assault another -- how can it be legal for adults to hit children?
You might want to look at this, too: [urlhttp://www.hrw.org/news/2010/04/14/corporal-punishment-schools-and-its-effect-academic-success-joint-hrwaclu-statement[/url] This quote, in particular, interests me, "Evidence shows that students with disabilities are also disproportionally subjected to corporal punishment. The Department of Education has reported that although students with disabilities constitute 13.7 percent of all public school students, they make up 18.8 percent of those who are subjected to corporal punishment.[11] In many of these cases, students were punished for exhibiting behaviors related to their disabilities, such as autism or Tourette's syndrome.[12] "
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