I am 24 and probably a lonely guy, based on most of my life. Only in recent years I started seeing some success.. had 2 girlfriends. If I can give any advice to truly lonely guys, is to realize several things, which will make life more enjoyable (and hopefully provide the first step to being happy):
- forget words like "loser". snobs who have always been popular made them up, to keep loners down, and away from competition (guess human nature is crappy this way).
- switch your thinking from lonely to alone/single.
- finally, the movie shows how bad it is to die alone. Well, realize that its bad only if you suffered. I think this movie is evil this way.. they shouldnt have showed dying alone like this. 1) Because in my opinion, the first step to snap out of this loner state, is to beat your fear of dying alone. If you manage to do it, you will be much happier, trust me. You have to overcome this fear, so that you can let go of the girls that dwell in your memory, even if you think they are the only ones in your life. 2) As bad as it sounds, killing the love feeling is the only way to stay positive and manly. Kill love, in order to find it later again.