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Any parents let toddlers watch this? (Spoiler)


Just bought the DVD and am unsure whether to let my 2 year old watch it? Is there anyone with young children that get upset by the Snowman melting at the end?

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Not to worry. My son loved it. Didn't cry when the snowman melted, I just told him that he had gone back to the party at the North Pole ;)

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That sounds like cheating. Like telling the kids that "old Yeller goes away and lives on a farm", right after you change the channel.

Not that there's anything wrong with that. Kids get too much info anyway.

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He's too young to know about death and I'd like to keep it that way for as long as possible.

He's started to cry at the end now. This film is an emotional rollercoaster

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i saw it when i was about 3. the death of the snowman didn't really affect me. i think your son should be ok with it

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I don't want to judge the way how you raise your child, but I wouldn't have done that myself.

I would want my children to fully experience this moment of grief, so that they realize what it means when the death of a loved one occurs. Will I then want to lie about the death of a relative, a friend or pet again? I'd feel I kind of must, if I lie after the snowman's death, don't I?

By tricking them into believing anything other than that the snowman died, I'm letting a chance pass by.

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My Mum just came up with a good remedy, after we've just watched it on Channel 4. You could just say he goes away and comes back next year, like annually. Lmao. I wouldn't overthink it. Toddlers forget. I was plonked in front of this practically as soon as I popped out.

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Watching this film was also a tradition for me since I was a toddler, and I was never emotionally affected by it. I think it gets slightly more upsetting as you get a bit older. Toddlers have the ability to forget very quickly, but children soon lose that. My mum used to remind me that he came back every year, as is evidenced in "Father Christmas"- you should show your baby that as well!

But if there's any Briggs' animation not to show him until he's much older...it's "When the Wind Blows"...




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not true...I saw it as a kid and as soon as the end credits rolled, I was never the same again.

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Actually as much as I love this film (the score is perfect!) the ending was a bit much I thought for a children's film. Yes, I know how most fairy tales are grisly and that children must learn about death yada yada (like they won't learn it anyway from LIFE?!).
But it was such a happy film, only to end like THAT! Having the snowman wave and fly away with the other snowmen maybe, would have been a much better ending!

Parents could tell their kids, truthfully, that the snowman will be back again. He appears in another film that is on the box set, at a party and Santa(?) says "You're back again!"



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I will agree it is an unusual ending to what does seem obstensively to be aimed children, but I'm not sure that's a bad thing. Just think of it as an antidote to all the saccharin sweet drivel that's on over christmas as well.

I sort of wonder if it is a hint at Briggs' personality... When the Wind Blows always made me wonder & as wonderful as it is I just can't bring my self to watch that again.

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My 2 year old loves it. She doesn't understand yet what happens. At the end she just looks at me and holds her arms out, asking "where did he go?" I say, "He melted." She says, "No," and that's that.

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Yes god forgive children were to experience real feelings of loss disappointment etc.. Ever heard of mollycoddle ?

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My husband said" when it brings tears to their eyes, that's the right time to see it"

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I remember in December 1988 when I was in 2nd grade my music teacher showed this to the class. However, when she recorded it she either left out the ending, or pushed the stop button on the VCR before it was over. I think she figured a lot of us kids would get way too upset with the ending, so she made it seem like it ended when the boy returned home. I didn't see this again until 6 years later in 1994 when it aired on The Disney Channell, and I remember being very surprised by the ending.

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If I had known about it when my so was a toddler, I'd for sure be up for sharing the experience with him. Most kids handle the concept of death and loss well, and the few who are not ready? The parents have to decide how to deal with it. I think honesty is best, but some parents lie or hide things in a attempt to protect. It's a personal decision.
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