Don't you eyeball me!


Gunnery Sergeant Foley says this whenever an officer candidate makes eye contact with him while he's chewing them out. This is also said by Drill Instructors in other boot camp movies. Why is this?

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It's an urban slang expression that's been around for decades...

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=eyeballin

or...

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=eyeballing


"Don't you eyeball me" basically means "Stop checkin' me out".

Word to yo' mutha!


"I'm confused...wait...maybe I'm not."

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Is that really what it means when a DI says it? I know eyeballing means staring at something, but I wondered if it was something to do with the recruit not being allowed to be confrontational with their body-language. When you stare at someone right in the eye, it can sometimes be a bit unnerving to the other person.

I'm not American (I'm English) and ghetto-speak is not something I really hear where I live so I have not heard people use this phrase in real life. I don't hear girls on nights out in town saying "Don't eyeball me!" if some lads are ogling them.

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Is that really what it means when a DI says it?


It's black slang, so if the DI is black, then that's what he means. I don't recall it being used by white drill instructors in any other films. Just out of curiosity, in what other films did you hear the expression used by a drill instructor?

I know eyeballing means staring at something, but I wondered if it was something to do with the recruit not being allowed to be confrontational with their body-language. When you stare at someone right in the eye, it can sometimes be a bit unnerving to the other person.


"Eyeballing" is staring, and staring can be interpreted in several ways (admiration, contempt, curiosity, etc.). I don't think Mayo was particularly staring at Foley in a menacing way (he was probably just being attentive) but it is Foley's job as a drill instructor to breakdown his recruits and show them who's in charge. It was probably just an off-the-cuff remark meant to give Mayo a sense of inferiority.

I'm not American (I'm English) and ghetto-speak is not something I really hear where I live so I have not heard people use this phrase in real life.


To be honest, I don't think it is used as much today as it was back in the '70s, '60s, '50s & earlier, and even then it may have just been a southern black expression. I'm not 100% certain. I grew up in East Harlem in New York City back in the '60s & '70s and never heard it spoken even once. I've only heard the phrase a few times in films, in music, and on TV.

I don't hear girls on nights out in town saying "Don't eyeball me!" if some lads are ogling them.


Hey, maybe you can start a new trend in the motherland!

Cheers, mate!



"I'm confused...wait...maybe I'm not."

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staring can be interpreted in several ways (admiration, contempt, curiosity, etc.). I don't think Mayo was particularly staring at Foley in a menacing way (he was probably just being attentive) but it is Foley's job as a drill instructor to breakdown his recruits and show them who's in charge. It was probably just an off-the-cuff remark meant to give Mayo a sense of inferiority.


I agree Mayo wasn't exactly trying to psych him out (although Mayo was an arrogant little twerp to begin with and Foley didn't like this), it seemed Foley wouldn't tolerate any kind of defiance with his recruits (and he f*<ks with them a bit to keep them second-guessing, like the bit where he has a go at Sid for adressing him as "you" - "I am not a ewe! A ewe is a female sheeep!" and I thought not allowing eye contact was part of this.

Sorry to digress here, but when my dog (a labrador) was young, a dog trainer came over to our house a few times to help discipline him (he was very excitable and still hasn't lost totally lost this at the age of 11) and he said our dog was messing us around too much (he has a dominant nature, despite being very gentle) that sometimes we should give him less attention and not so much eye contact. I always thought it was interesting that he said that because my dog uses his eyes a lot to communicate with me and my parents. He's not the kind of dog that makes a lot of noise so it's amazing how skilfull he is at using this to get us to engage him. Sometimes I'm watching TV and he's in my line of vision just staring at me, trying to get me to take my eyes off the TV and onto him (usually he's got a toy and wants me to play with him, his idea of fun is getting me to chase him with it). Sometimes I wonder if it's all part of his alpha male nature and natural defiance, if he's trying to get us to do what he wants us to do (like the way little kids act up to get attention or things from their parents).

Anyway, sorry to bore you with all that. I know dog behaviour is different from human behaviour but then we are descended from apes and a lot of animals have similar ways of asserting social status.

I don't recall it being used by white drill instructors in any other films. Just out of curiosity, in what other films did you hear the expression used by a drill instructor?


I have seen quite a few films with boot camp scenes in them (Full Metal Jacket, Jarhead, Tigerland, Biloxi Blues, Starship Troopers, GI Jane, Private Benjamin, Stripes, Heartbreak Ridge, Glory) but to be honest I can't remember any particular moment where the "don't eyeball me" phrase was used, except in Hot Shots! where there is a spoof of typical DI chewing out scenes (except in this case it's Lieutenant Commander because all the pilots are junior officers) and the guy doing the chewing out is indeed black, so they probably copied the eyeballin' line from Officer and a Gentleman.

The verbally abusive lines that DI's shout in film kind of all roll together, so sometimes you hear a quote and can't quite which film it is, this is probably why I thought another DI had said it. But then perhaps because of this film the eyeballin' phrase has been reused in other script and maybe even real DIs use it in their routines.

I just didn't quite what it was about and had no idea it came from street slang (unless perhaps an ex-military man claims otherwise). But thanks for replying!

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Bull *beep* Telling someone not to eyeball you is not using "ghetto slang".

I don't know who you're quoting but I never called it "ghetto slang", sista. That was all you.

It's a military thing not a black colloquialism.


From Heatwave, a black r&b/soul/funk group from the '70s (Boogie Nights, Always & Forever, The Groove Line, etc.):

http://mp3skull.com/mp3/heatwave_eyeballin.html

So, tell me...are they drill instructors singin' about the military, or are they just using black '70s slang?

Uh-huh...Eyeballin'...it ain't just a military thang.

"I'm confused...wait...maybe I'm not."

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BS!!! Maybe you movie commandos should actually go to boot camp before being "experts"!

The correct expression is Eye-F@#$ing...and it's not a black thing nor does it have anything to do with aggression and everything to do with maintaining discipline.
Along with not looking there's also no scratching, squirming, weight shifting, nose wriggling or any other movement.

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Eyeballing someone, which is basically staring someone down or sizing them up is very disrespectful and somewhat confrontational.














I woke up this way...

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But he said it whenever the recruits gave him eye contact, which isn't the same as staring someone up and down.

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When I was in the military back in the late '60s and early '70s "eyeballing" was a common military term- Essentially it's moving your eyes toward the DI while at attention rather than staring straight ahead. (If you recall, Foley also says, "Use your peripheral vision". i.e. Don't move your eyes toward me.) You'd also hear, "You got a case of the 'roving eyeballs' there, recruit."

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Is it like, when you stand at attention you aren't supposed to move any part of your body (except your mouth when answering) and this includes your eyes? When you've "fallen in" (standing in formation) you can't turn your head to look at an NCO when they talk to you, you also can't move your eyes, is that it?

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Yes. You are not supposed to be looking around while standing at attention. That's all that's meant by "Stop eyeballin' me." It has almost nothing to do with all this nonsense about black people and urban slang.

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Thanks. What confused me as well was that it seemed like Foley didn't like anyone looking him in the eye at any time, not just while they were at attention, he even said "Don't you eyeball me!" when he was making Mayo do press-ups in the mud.

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Yes. You are not supposed to be looking around while standing at attention. That's all that's meant by "Stop eyeballin' me."


And "Stop eyeballin' me" is black/urban slang for "Stop lookin' at me", which is exactly what Foley meant. We've already established that. "Looking around" would mean having a case of the "roving eyeballs" (as a previous poster stated), which is definitely not what Foley meant by "Stop eyeballin' me".

It has almost nothing to do with all this nonsense about black people and urban slang.


"Almost nothing"?? Well, does it or doesn't it? The term "eyeballin" is (or once was) black/urban slang, PERIOD. Whether or not you view it as "nonsense" is irrelevant. It's been used repeatedly in black music and in black cinema (Google is your friend). Foley, being the first (and possibly the only) drill instructor in film history to use the term (and who just happens to be black) uses it repeatedly in this film. Now, it may also be "military slang", but it is military slang that is derived from black/urban slang. That's the point I was trying to make.

"I'm confused...wait...maybe I'm not."

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The OP's question was not where did the expression come from, or even what does it mean? Why is it used in this application of a DI and a trainee? The attempted eye contact on the part of the trainee is the body language equivalent of having or asserting an independent opinion or judgment. These are conditions where you are being trained to throw overboard your tendency to follow your opinion so you can be molded into a particular type of person who can follow orders. When they want your opinion they will ask for it.

(PRN) – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=id-bFpYQzXE

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Look over the TI's shoulder, works every time unless the guy's just trying to mindflock you. They'll dog you for things you didn't do.

"They sucked his brains out!"

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It's kind of subtle but while you might think this film might be about Zach Mayo learning to become a good officer, it's actually about the repressed love between Sargeant Foley and David Keith's character. This is most obvious in that first scene when they hold a spirited discussion about the state of Oklahoma and female sheep.

So, with that in mind, you can translate the line as....

Don't you eyeball me! = I yearn for you tragically.

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They say the exact same line in "American history X". When Norton's character ends up in prison, the guard says the same thing to him.

khou van je voor altijd, cutiepie <3

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When standing at attention, your eyes are to be focused straight ahead. You hold your body in a rigid posture: Feet together and forming a 45 degree angle, arms at your side, fingers slightly tucked under, your thumb along the seam of your trousers, head erect but level. When you are put "at ease" you may then relax your body and place your focus elsewhere. In between is "parade rest", where your body is in slightly more relaxed posture, but still with forml bearing. Your legs are spread apart and your hands are positioned behind you back in a deliberate manner. You would go from attention to parade rest, then to at ease (at least in the Navy and Marine Corps).

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Ditto with Grendelkhan's statement. Also, don't forget the number 1 statement by Foley. "DO not look your superiors in the eye". That's what he is trying to teach them. They have to be broken down of their civilian habits and be taught how to do things the military way. Tha is why when he meets the officers for their 1st salute, he DOESNT look them in the eye, because he's no longer the superior.

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In the UK, IIRC, the formal-less formal-relaxed progression is

Attention
At Ease
Stand Easy...

Look at anything with Windsor Davies as a W01 or BdeSM or equivalent...

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ALL DIs, TIs and such are GAY. They are OBSESSED with homosexuality.

"They sucked his brains out!"

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I got the impression officer candidates and recruits are supposed to look straight ahead, not at the drill instructor.

When I was growing up in the New York area in the '70s and '80s imbeciles looking for fights were constantly asking "were you looking at me?"

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He seemed to have a big problem with eye contact, I guess because he thought the cadets weren't worthy.

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