Bit of a simplistic reading, in my opinion. Sid had a girl back home; but, it seemed, like everything else, she was what was "expected" of him, by his family; not that he loved her. As he says to Lynette later, he was doing everything for them, and not himself. He truly felt he was in love with Lynette. Getting involved, in the first place, may be seen as a moral lapse; but, he grew close to her and came to realize she was more of what he wanted. Or, at least, that's what he thought. Then, when Lynette reveals that it wasn't true and that she was only interested in him if he was a pilot, his world was shattered. He felt betrayed and destroyed. That is why Lynette gets the venom, not Sid. Sid is true to the people in his life, often at the loss of his own self. Lynnete was only in the relationship for the perceived glamour of being a pilot's wife, in some exotic port of call, preferably stationed in a good location, like Hawaii.
The Zack and Paula scene was hardly about jealousy, from my reading. He was becoming aware of what he was letting slip away. Jealousy was more of a reaction to his own stupidity.
As for sexism, you can certainly read that into it, though it is a pretty accurate reflection of the time. Segar gets a lot of crap; but, women in the military did, especially if they wanted to be a pilot, or something similar. Segar keeps fighting, which is a positive role. Now, you can say it is a cop-out that she is ready to finally give up, until Mayo motivates her to get over the wall. I think it is, though the scene is there to depict Mayo's realization that it isn't about him and a friend needs his help. It's to demonstrate his growth, though at the expense of Segar's independence. She does get her triumph, but it isn't a solo one. However, the reality of a military environment is that teamwork helps you get past your own perceived limitations.
Paula and Lynette are shown to be after a good time and escape; but, you can contrast their journies. Lynette never rises beyond; Paula walks away from doing the same thing, determined to go on with her life and be true to herself and finds a reward. Certainly, she is "rescued by her prince;" but, that's Hollywood. It would have been bold to have the film end with Paula leaving her job to go off to do other things elsewhere; but, that isn't the ending audiences wanted. The film didn't have Mayo coming back to Paula, originally and audiences hated it. When Mayo comes for her, audiences loved it.
Sexism I will grant you; amorality I refute.
Fortunately, Ah keep mah feathers numbered for just such an emergency!
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