Helped me realize that I was not the only one....
This movie helped me realize that I was not the ONLY man( 15 year old teenager )feeling like I was a " freak" just because of my being atttracted to other men. I did not know anything about homosexuality, I literally thought I was the ONLY person who had these feelings..feelings for other men.
After watching this movie it helped me realize that there was a whole other "world " out there for homosexuals, men liking/being in love with other men, and the same for women being attracted to other women.
I attended a Catholic school for 7 years and obviously they did not speak about people being homosexuals or anything about women being lesbians, and I don't think, at the time, that the Catholic church had such problems like priests having sex with under-age students.
This movie came out at the beginning of a crucial time in the world as the advent of AIDS was becoming an epidemic, and for this I do agree it was /is a groundbreaking movie.
To my knowledge, 3 years after this movie was the very first movie made about AIDS, it was called " An Early Frost".
After watching Making Love, my whole life had a new perspective. I knew that I was not a freak, I was just gay. I had feelings for other men for as long as I can remember and of course being Catholic I tried to supress my feelings, but when I turned 18, after I graduated high school, I started to act on those feelings.
My first time in a gay bar, was the first time in my life I felt like I had nothing to hide, I felt free, I felt I was at " home ". All of this because of this movie. It gave me a big ole shove closer to getting out of the closet.
I am sorry if I offended anyone with this post, it was not my intention. My intention was to tell my story of how this movie helped me realize that I was not alone in being gay.
Happy Holidays to you all!!!
PEACE !!!
Ricky :)