No need to apologize, you just have a concept of Jews that seems lifted from anti-semitic stereotypes. A large percentage of Jews don't "look Jewish" in the sense you mean and could easily pass for Scandinavian or Dutch, or just white in general. Many have blue eyes (as well as blonde, and especially red, hair) and the idea that they don't is a product of National Socialist propaganda. I assume your exposure to actual Jews is limited, outside of what you've seen in the media.
I'm not accusing you of being anti-semitic per se, but it is a mildly anti-semitic comment on your part. It's all in the wording and implications, as your post basically boils down to: "she's too hot to be Jewish, because Jews are ugly." Even in your 2nd post you claim to "take the whole Jew thing away" and then immediately followed it up with "that yenta wife"; a bit of a disconnect there. Not particularly surprising though, since it started off like "not to be racist, but..." Of course you're well within your rights to feel that way.
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