Question for Muscovites...
A friend of mine, born and raised in Russia, recommended this brilliant film to me, claiming it was an accurate portrayal of the unique issues that men and women in Moscow still struggle with today.
Even after all the social and political changes over the last 20 years, very little has changed when it comes to the cultural battle of the sexes. At least according to my friend.
But even after seeing this film, I still had my doubts. Maybe my friend is just sexist, or old fashioned.
If I had never been to the United States before, and I saw the television drama "Mad Men" I would think every American male was a philandering alcoholic, and every female valued herself solely on her physical beauty and sexuality. But being an American, I am aware that the culture portrayed in the show is long gone, which is why the show is so fascinating to watch.
So I am asking any Russians out there - male or female, young or old, Muscovite or elsewhere - do you think the issues portrayed in this film still exist there today?
Here are a few themes from the film. Feel free to dispute or confirm them in terms of today's Moscow...
1.) No matter how beautiful, intellectual or sophisticated a Russian woman is, she will always see herself as a commodity for men. Even the most beautiful, talented and wealthiest of girls in Moscow will still value themselves as a commodity... just a more valuable commodity than the rest.
2.) While there are an abundance of smart beautiful women in Moscow, a good man is hard to find.
3.) Most of the men in Moscow drink too much and are unreliable.
4.) Since good men know how scarce they are, they will take advantage of their valued position by letting themselves go, cheating, or even leaving their wives for younger women... ultimately proving that even the good ones aren't so good.
5.) A woman can be more successful, have more degrees, make more money than her man... so long as she cooks him dinner, s***s his c**k and respects the fact that he is the man. (Personally, I agree with this one. Except for the cooking part. I could let that slide.)
Again, I know these are stereotypes. But that's why I want to hear the opinion of a Russian who actually lives in Russia.