Why did she leave?


I missed the start, why did Annie leave her child? How could a mother leave her child?

~Just another freak in the freak kingdom.~

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It doesn't get into too much detail, but there is a scene with The Champ and Annie where he tells her that she wasn't around for T.J because she wanted to go off to France and make dresses for pretty French girls. Apparently she simply went off to pursue a career in fashion design.

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Thanks for the answer

Man that is cold, I do not get how a mother could leave her baby

I couldn't anyway

~Just another freak in the freak kingdom.~

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Why not? Fathers do this all the time.

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That doesn't it right. or better, still wrong

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I wasn't saying it is right, but society judges mother way more harshly than fathers. Women are seen as monsters, men as irresponsible bstards.

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>>Women are seen as monsters, men as irresponsible bstards.

I dunno where you are from, but in my society men are seen both as 'irresponsible bastards' and 'monsters' while women are regarded as 'without a fault' no matter what they do

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Oh, you're from Lalaland. Welcome to planet Earth. ;)

"Eventually, all things merge into one, and a river runs through it." Norman Maclean

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did your father or husband left you? it is not common in my social circle, so nope, not all the time

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Really. I know many families where the father left the mother by her own devices.

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Proably did not like him boxing. I had the photo novel of this wish I still had it. just recently got this on dvd,

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...there is a scene with The Champ and Annie where he tells her that she wasn't around for T.J because she wanted to go off to France and make dresses for pretty French girls. Apparently she simply went off to pursue a career in fashion design.
But she looks at him when he says that like she's confused he really believes that's the reason. Apparently he has a very selective memory.

They were probably two people who were physically attracted to each other and clicked on a certain level...but then found out all they did together was argue (as we see them do in their scenes together.)

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Mothers do it everyday unfortunately, many without remorse. Obviously Annie felt a deep regret and sense of remorse about the whole thing which she tried to put toward the back of her mind.

I think it may have been the boxing that made her want to leave Billy. It's a very similar tale for a lot of women who marry into that sort of thing. I think it's a similar mentality that pilot's wives experience, everyday is tension ridden.

They imply that Billy has been injured in the head before and that is probably the reason he stopped boxing. I'm guessing that's around the same time Annie left. A lot of people will numb themselves to this sort of life, they try not to think about the worst possible scenario, but eventually it gets to them. Annie has a numb sentiment about her, perhaps that's just Faye Dunaway's acting but I think it was done on purpose.


Think about it...your entire life is dedicated to your husband's boxing career. Of course it isn't like most other careers where you go to work in the morning and come home when dinner is on the table. Every single match is a fight for your life, you never know if it's going to be your husband's last day. The stress of that sort of life is enough to get to anyone. Yeah, I'm sure after awhile you'd want to end it and move on with your life. They never really explain why she gave up custody of her son, but perhaps Billy was really insistent on keeping him.

That's one reason...

There's also the fact that they were obviously incompatible on just about every level.

Annie seemed to want to get away at any cost, which is probably why she gave up custody of TJ.


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