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Sex in the City of the 70's?


I just saw An Unmarried Woman for the first time and thought it was very enjoyable. I loved the relationship that the women had with each other. The scene where they are ice skating in Rockefeller Center looked like something that Carrie and company would be doing 30 years later. And the first scene when they are all together and the one friend is telling the others about her dating a 19 year old. The way they all tease, but at the same time, support her, was very reminiscent of Sex in the City to me. Anyone agree?

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Yeah I saw this film today and thought the same thing! I liked this movie better than the series though, probably because I think New York in the 70's was cooler than it is today!

If I had a nickel for every cigarette your mom smoked, I'd be dead.

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Traces, I get that feeling too. Everytime I see a '70s movie involving New York, I find myself wishing I was alive in that decade and living in NYC. I was born in '77, but, that's a little too late, obviously.

This is a great film. Jill Clayburgh did a great job as the unfortunate victim of a cheating spouse.

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"Everytime I see a '70s movie involving New York, I find myself wishing I was alive in that decade and living in NYC."

Oh me too! New York just doesn't seem like New York anymore. I haven't been there since 2001. It's just too depressing to witness its demise. It's funny when I watch Taxi Driver and Travis Bickle is complaining the city should be cleaned up, I think, Oh they cleaned it up alright! Cleaned it up so much there's no New York left! There's nobody cool left who can afford to live there! Nothing but Disney and tourists and other franchises and non-smoking bars and clubs! This is New York? Or is it an Epcot simulated version?
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If I had a nickel for every cigarette your mom smoked, I'd be dead.

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"I haven't been back since 2001, either. It's completely lot it's edge. I counted about 4 Starbucks on the once hip Astor Place...4 Starbucks within TWO BLOCKS! It now has the atmosphere of Toronto, not that I've ever been to Toronto.

Taxi Driver captures the eery, sleazy aspects of NYC then...I'm not even sure if the clouds of steam still comes out from the subways anymore."

Yeah, I hear you man!

If I had a nickel for every cigarette your mom smoked, I'd be dead.

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You should actually try Brooklyn. For the last 10-15 years, the soul of the city seems to have migrated to this, the most populous borough in the City. Each neighborhood is different, but the thing you hear all the time from the old timers is that it's like the old New York.

I avoid Manhattan unless I have to go work there. It's nice to bike around, too. But so much of it has become a hipster version of the Epcott Center. We shouldn't forget, though, that in the 70s the city was pretty squalid: garbage piled up, violent crime the like of which our generation could scarce comprehend, rampant corruption, and a general meanness and indifference from the average citizen. Not to mention that the city was bankrupt. You could say that in the 70s, the city also lost its edge. Remember also that NY has been through lots of different phases, and will continue to do so.

We should avoid the temptation to wish for less-than-ideal conditions in places we like to visit as tourists: a cheap holiday in other people's misery, as the Sex Pistols wrote. Also, the NY you see portrayed in a film like this is very much like the NY of Woody Allen's films and Sex in the City: largely an idealized fantasy; the imaginary New York of a privileged few, which then becomes a substitute for the real thing in the popular imagination.

Mariano Paniello
Brooklyn

PS I agree with you about Starbucks! The McDonald's of coffee.

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"You should actually try Brooklyn. For the last 10-15 years, the soul of the city seems to have migrated to this, the most populous borough in the City. Each neighborhood is different, but the thing you hear all the time from the old timers is that it's like the old New York."

Thanks for the advice! I have been wanting to move to Brooklyn for a long time but I had no idea what it would be like there. It just sounded like a cool place to go. But since it's still New York state how's the smoking situation? I'm sure people can't smoke in bars or clubs. It just seems weird to be in a bar and not see people smoking while there damaging their livers.


"We should avoid the temptation to wish for less-than-ideal conditions in places we like to visit as tourists: a cheap holiday in other people's misery, as the Sex Pistols wrote. "

I hear what your saying. I was actually very happy when the city was getting cleaned up. Living only an hour away I would go to NYC every weekend and loved feeling a whole lot safer. But man, talk about one extreme to another!


If I had a nickel for every cigarette your mom smoked, I'd be dead.

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It's true, you can't smoke in bars or restaurants here. But...I'm a fairly late night person, and am a regular at a few bars, where I'm friends with the owners and/or bartenders; and at a few places, after they've officially closed down, you can smoke. A lot of the time they let the regulars stay behind.

I smoke when I'm out drinking, and at first it was a real annoyance, especially in winter. On the whole, though, it's hard to argue with the statistics for people who work in bars or restaurants and their higher rate of smoking-related illnesses.

Yeah, Manhattan has gone to something of an extreme in its cleanup. But one thing that still annoys me is how it's all credited to Giuliani, who, while he did do a lot of positive things, happened to be mayor at a time when crime was declining in big cities across the country. This was due largely to economic improvement under the eeee-vil Clinton (remember that nightmare of peace and prosperity)?

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I saw this movie myself for the first time last week and I actually found myself thinking, "hmmmm, Carrie, Charlotte, Samantha and Miranda". I was wondering if Darren Star used it as a template. This movie was clearly ahead of it's time. Although I enjoyed the relationship the women shared, my favorite aspect was the relationship between Erica and her teenage daughter. Having been through a divorce myself, it's amazing how strong and mature kids can be...and then they turn around and throw a complete tantrum when you least expect it. I think this was represented beautifully in this movie.

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I have a bit of trvia.The actress who has the 19 year old boyfriend, Linda Miller is actor Jason Patric's mother!You can see the resemblence in the blue eyes and full lips.Both are very attractive.

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To compare this fine feature film to that crappy, pointless tv series is to do it the highest injustice. Please don't.

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Though the comparison to SEX AND THE CITY did not come to mind, I do think that some of the best scenes in the movie were the ones involving Erica and her girlfriends.

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I moved into Manhattan from the Island in 1978, and watching this movie(including the opening helicopter panning shot of Manhattan, with the top of the Citicorp building still unfinished) so brings me back to that time. I used to meet my best friend for drinks at One Fifth, the same bar where Erica meets her friends. Decorated like an art deco ocean liner, it was elegant, cosmopolitan--the quintessential New York bar.

I moved to San Francisco in 2002. Love it here, but no place on earth is New York. On my last trip home, last June, I visited several locations where An Unmarried Woman was shot--her apartment house on 2nd & 68th, the bridge over the FDR where they jogged, that stretch between Wooster & W Broadway on Spring where Martin broke up with her...some are unchanged, some very changed--One Fifth is now an Italian restaurant--ugh!

Sexually, the city was very relaxed and sophisticated. I don't think that's changed much, but I agree with the prior poster's comments about Giuliani's sanitization of New York. While it's helped tourism & the economy, many of us miss the invigorating seediness of Manhattan in those days.

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Thanks for your post....wow, your head must flood with memories every time you watch this movie.

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Yes back in the 1970's and 1980's new york looked cool! I miss the Manhattan of "Taxi Driver" ,"Annie Hall", "UnMarried Woman" ,"Fame" ,"Tootsie", "Moscow on The Hudson" ,"Desperate Seeking Susan" , "After Hours" , even "When Harry Met Sally" NEw York

Now New York might as well be called "Starbuck City"

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" with the top of the Citicorp building still unfinished..." I actually rewound that scene to see if what I saw was what I thought it was - I was a little kid at the time and to see the citicorp building being built kind of blew my mind.

I moved west in the mid 90's - everytime I go back to visit NY, something else is gone. I love seeing how it was in old movies though...

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The original poster says this movie is reminiscent of the "Sex and the City" TV program.

I agree about the similarities, but this movie pre-dates the tv show by quite a few years. I rather think it would be the other way around, i.e. Sex and the City is reminiscent of the film. An Unmarried Woman probably provided the original inspiration for the television show.

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I see the point, but An Unmarried Woman is way sharper, stronger and more interesting to me than that show. I think this is one of the great movies of the 70s and one of the all-time great New York movies, not just an extended sitcom episode.

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What's all this nostalgia about NY in the 70s? Having grown up and lived in NYC and its environs, I remember well NY and what I remember most is Son of Sam, blackouts and the ensuing looting, a city in bankruptcy, grafitti everywhere, Ford damning us to Hell, embarrassingly bad clothing, grating music emanating from ultra hip clubs, and a Times Square that had already begun to lose most of its character. If you want to be nostalgic, I think you need to go further back, to the 60s and before. But then again, it may be that I'm just an aging curmudgeon with an aching back!

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This film was WAY better than that dumb, unrelatable-to-many Sex in the City. Carrie and her shoes on her paltry columnist's salary was a joke. Ditto for Samantha's escapades. Ditto for Charlotte's proseltyzing and witchy pointy nose and finger-pointing at everyone who doesn't measure up to her standards.

That show was so beyond over-rated.

"An Unmarried Woman" was an excellent film..."Sex in the City" was a joke.

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yeah i wish i'd been young in the 70's, coolest time to be young. I guess 1978 was too late for me coz i was born in the 70's too.

ivan

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