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Wouldn't they want their own homes?


Why would Bobby and JR want to live with their parents their entire life?

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Because they love Southfork and Miss Ellie wanted them there. LOL I don't know really, it's the only reasons I can think of.


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I love this show but I always thought this was strange.

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The show wouldn't have worked if they lived in different houses. A lot of the drama came from the conflicts that occurred in the house - the dinners, breakfasts, etc.

I don't watch "Empire," but do they all live in the same house?

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I've only seen some episodes of Empire but no they do not live in the same house.

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They had to live together. What better way to create drama than to have tensions between everyone living under the same roof? I'm surprised Bobby and Pam decided to live at SF after they remarried in season 10. If I were Pam, there's no way I'd go from living in my own house with all that privacy to living with JR.

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On DYNASTY, and now EMPIRE, it's not so weird because the mansion on the family compound is so large (and even then they sometimes move out).

But on DALLAS, they live in a barely-glorified ranch house (which is twice as small in real life than it appears on screen) so it seems pretty cramped. But that's the fun of the show: a bourgeois workingclass mindset deeply instilled in this superrich family -- they actually think Southfork is "nice."

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Miss Ellie would cry.

Oh God. Fortune vomits on my eiderdown once more.

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They could have built there own family house near the main house. They could still have had family breakfasts and dinners a couple of times a week for family drama purposes.
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In-Universe answers:

- Family togetherness. It's just more cozy to live with your supportive family that you also get to be a useful part of by supporting them as well. It's a win-win situation for everyone, especially elderly, aging parents that might need more help in the future.

- Practicality. When you've lived with your family all your life, moving away needs a big motivation, is quite a hassle and workload, lots of stress and arranging chings. And for what? It's just more practical to live together, giving each other support, advice and insights into life.

- Support network. If something happens - and a lot happens in the show and would in real life, too - it's easier to deal with, if the group lives supporting together as a family, instead of separate individuals. A problem becomes everyone's problem, and thus makes it smaller for the individual.

- Social life and connections. This kind of arrangement allows for a maximum amount of social life and connections - although possibly 'cramping one's style', you get to know a lot more people through family connections, and there's a 'neutral place' to invite everyone over.

There are many cultures in the world (for example, in Asia) where multiple generations of families live in the same house or premises, and this is seen as normal. A son marries someone, and they move in the same family house they always lived in, instead of moving on their own. There are lots and lots of benefits from such an arrangement.

This is seen as completely normal in many parts of this planet, but in the west, it's frowned upon for some reason. Why can't a family or generations live together?

Of course there are benefits for solitary or individual lives as well, and I think, as everyone is different, everyone should be able to live any which way they want. Some people are lones, some are family people, some want to live with their 'own' family, and only visit their 'extended' family from time to time.

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I think it's strange to try to impose your will or implant a pre-defined 'want' onto someone (or someones), especially fictional characters of a very old TV show.

Why should they want to live on their own, if they can live in a luxurious ranch house with all the comforts and luxuries of hired help and beautiful nature all around, if they appreciate and love their family as much as they do?

Real-world explanations:

Well, everyone has already explained this part pretty well - it is just easier to show all kinds of drama, dramatic happenings and social life, when people are arranged into a big cluster instead of separate particles that the cameras have to chase down from house to house all over the place (I realize most of it happens in studios anyway, but it wasn't meant literally).

I think it's the most logical and easy-to-understand thing to do, and I wonder why someone has to ask this kind of a question.

Do you want everyone to be identical, or do you leave room for people to make their individual choices, even if they're different from what you would make?

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That was absolutely ridiculous. All the couples living in their own homes would've avoided a lot of problems. It's weird, in the miniseries they point out the house that would've belonged to Gary and his family, but this is never addressed again, I think?

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In Southern melodrama, you need everyone under the same roof so they'll get on each other's nerves, and can then conveniently argue all the time.

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