Leia had a dad and it wasn't Anakin Skywalker

https://officialfan.proboards.com/thread/600049/leia-dad-anakin-skywalker

Anakin may've been her biological father, but to her all he'd really be is the scourge of the galaxy who mass murdered in the cause of a fascist empire. Vader was the guy who personally tortured her to get information about the Rebellion she dedicated her life to&then was complicit in the extinction of every living thing on the planet that was the only home she'd every known.

I don't care how close she got to Luke, I can't see her ever having the warm&fuzzies for Anakin/Vader even if the Force decided he was redeemed. If she wasn't outright horrified or ashamed of Anakin being her father, I feel like she'd at best tolerate Luke's veneration of him even as it made her a little queasy.

Cuz she didn't grow up without parents like Luke (though Luke has always kind of short changed Owen&Beru. They did their best.) Leia had a loving home and family that raised her to be the feisty, revolutionary princess she was. She might have had Anakin's midichlorian nature in there but the nurture she got on Alderaan made her who she was.

Vader was her father, but he never even did the minimal amount of doing right by her that he gave Luke. He didn't raise her, teach her, or any of that.

One man did.

Leia's actual dad, unsung hero of the series, Bail Organa.

That man deserves more respect.