I know that when you wrote your reply, you were probably thinking I was just some straight, redneck homophobic cowboy. Well, the joke’s on you: I’m gay. I’m also not the obvious type, which means (to put it in your own words) I’m not limp wristed, I’m not effeminate, and I don’t listen to opera.
One doesn’t just become gay, in an instant. Most people who are gay (or even bisexual) start having signs of it by puberty (you know, attraction to the same sex). And by the time they’re the age of the Bobby Joe character, they know they’re gay, and they’re not going fall heads-over-heels in love with someone of the opposite sex! A bisexual maybe, but even then they’re still going to know they’re attracted to the same sex (beforehand).
The only way to buy into Bobby Joe being gay is if something else occurred earlier in the film that pointed to that, and him ignoring the affections of other girls is not it…he was already in love with a girl, and not all guys are womanizers, you know.
Now since you’re supportive of me and my fellow gays, please tell me that you’re critical of movies like BRUNO and IN AND OUT, because both of these movies are insulting to gay people. I don’t like gay stereotypes in my movies, and I don’t like them on TV either. But on the other hand, I’m not offended by gay humor, unless it’s mean spirited.
As far as people coming out is concerned, I know some do have a hard time, but what I would tell them is that there isn’t a reason to tell the whole world. You may want to, and I can understand that, but in reality, there is no reason to do it. Tell your family, tell your friends, but don’t put a sign on your back that says ‘I’m Gay’. Because unfortunately, there’s a lot of homophobics out there. And while it’s wrong, it’s still a fact.
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