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It was a baby they threw and here is why...


Granted I haven't seen this movie in years but what I got from it (the song included) is that Billy Joe was gay, I think it was implied even before the mill incident. As a way to quell the rumors and also because I think he really did love the girl in his own way, they did have sex as a way to "prove" his straight status (at least to himself). She then became pregnant, kept it hidden from everyone but Billy Joe, and she lost it early, and THAT was in fact what was thrown off the bridge. With the loss of the baby, the guilt of EVERYTHING, the sex, the fact he knew he was gay, the mill thing, everything is what contributed to the suicide. Thats my take on it anyway...

Most people ignore the strange and unusual, I myself AM strange and unusual...Lydia "Beetlejuice"

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No way she was pregnant... did TRY to have sex with her but could "rise to the occasion". Therefore, unless it was an immaculate conception, it couldn't be a baby. It was the doll (and should have also been the romance novel she had been reading). They both realized that they were trying to live out a fantasy...like she did with that doll, talkng to it and he trying to court and like her.

Although he was most likely taken advantage of, there is a line in the movie that gets to the core of his pain and which many selectively ignore. Even though he was molested, he say he knew what was happening and HE LIKED IT. Now, this is a huge thing to blurt out, particularly being a young man, in Mississippi in that era--hell, it's not easy today, so I can't even imagine what kids like him went through. I won't get into Billy Joe's intricate psychology, but from the moment I saw the movie years (and I mean years!) ago, it was obvious to me that the movie observes Billy Joe taking this journey where he attempts to be something he's not and enacts his ideal of what a perfect heterosexual might be, only to come to the inescapable realization that that was not a life for him to lead. It's devastating.

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friend, i have seen use the term "immaculate conception" twice and i just wanted to point out that (and catholic friends please correct me if i am wrong) the immaculate conception refers to Mary's conception without original sin, not the conception of Christ--which is the virgin birth.

so the immaculate conception is of Mary, with an earthly mother and father but without the stain of original sin, according to catholic doctrine


and the virgin birth is of Jesus (which is actually what u r refering to) with only an earthly, pure, mother as a vessel, but as the Holy Spirit as the One causing conception, therefore and earthly mother but Heavenly Fatheri think i have that all correct...

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LurkingFigure...you are totally correct about the definition of "Immaculate Conception". Thank you for the post.

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you're welcome and thank you for replying
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Do everything in Love. I Corinthians 16:14 NIV

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Ragdickie -- to clarify, while he did say he knew what was happening, he never said he "liked it" (unless the Netflix version was edited). You could argue that was implied, and that any sex might be somewhat pleasurable to a drunk, horny teen, but he doesn't state it.

Frankly, that would make for a much more powerful move, though, as you imply. And maybe that was the case in the original version, and it was edited.

I think the movie can work both ways -- in the way you describe, where he's just trying to fit in, and as an indictment of a narrow-minded society that causes a relatively normal teen to think he's gay simply because he had one drunken incident. ("How can I want you and do that?").

The final scene does tend to lean toward the former interpretation, but could also just be seen as compassion for Dewey's more established homosexuality. (And a desire to protect the legend of Billy Joe.)

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It's kind of hard to molest a grown man. Although Billy Joe's age is unspecified, he was finished with high school, and was played by a 20-year old actor.

The event was completely consensual.

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Granted I haven't seen this movie in years but what I got from it (the song included) is that Billy Joe was gay, I think it was implied even before the mill incident. As a way to quell the rumors and also because I think he really did love the girl in his own way, they did have sex as a way to "prove" his straight status (at least to himself). She then became pregnant, kept it hidden from everyone but Billy Joe, and she lost it early, and THAT was in fact what was thrown off the bridge. With the loss of the baby, the guilt of EVERYTHING, the sex, the fact he knew he was gay, the mill thing, everything is what contributed to the suicide. Thats my take on it anyway...


Your're right on one point.....it HAS been a while since you;ve seen the movie. If you;d watched it recently, you'd have recalled that when they fished billy joe out of the river, they also found Bobbie Lee's rag doll, "Benjamin"

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Where is this baby supposed to have come from? In the movie, Billy Joe and Bobbie Lee have only been dating a few months before she even considers making love with him, and they never actually go all the way together. I saw the picture when it first came out and remember that it was rated PG. Surely nothing substantial was edited for TV airings. I gather that Billy Joe feared he had failed Bobbie Lee in some way, and perhaps that he had committed an unforgivable sin by "being with" Dewey Barksdale (who is not to be confused with Brother Taylor the preacher). That's as detailed as their encounter is ever described onscreen. Bobbie Lee's reaction is the real focus of attention. The viewer is supposed to mature along with her as she learns that sexual relationships are a lot more complicated -- and fragile -- than the teenage confessional magazines she reads ever suggested. Pregnancy is only one possible outcome. In that respect she is the true heroine of the story. She saves Dewey from a gruesome fate at the hands of Billy Joe's father, in effect forgiving him for what he's done because she can understand his feelings, however awkwardly, and has no desire to see him punished as a predator. If the film were remade today, that detail would of course be changed completely.

The song is more ambiguous, but I don't think a real baby was involved in its backstory either. Wouldn't someone have noticed the pregnancy? If an abortion was involved, why would that be done on the bridge? I interpret the song to mean that its narrator did make love with Billie Joe (as the name is spelled on the record) but that they used some kind of protection. That's what they threw off the Tallahatchee Bridge, probably in response to seeing "that nice young preacher" Brother Taylor snooping around. The song's narrator probably taunted Billie Joe into thinking she really was pregnant so he would take her away from her cotton chopping chores. That, in my opinion, is what pushed him over the edge and made him kill himself.

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Yup, she did it to save his reputation because she truly loved him. There was no baby. Bobby Gentry has never said what it was they threw off the bridge eighter. She wants it to be left up the the peoples imagination. I know the whole thing is fictional, but it's so moving and beautiful, that it hits VERY close to home.

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Very true. This movie was a popcorn film, but really took away from the main theme of the song, proving the results of thinking with one's wallet instead of one's brain. The point of the song was to evoke this idea of how, even though a tragedy had just happened to a very close family friend, the narrator seems to be stunned at how casual her family treats the occasion, as if it had been just another day. The irony of how close the family appears to be to Billy Joe McCallister, through their calm remembrances of him, yet feeling more confusion than remorse, was THE theme of the song, and not even addressed in the film. Instead, Warner Douches decided to pay $1 million to clarify the stupid nonexistent mystery of what was thrown off the bridge. Just goes to prove you can do ANYTHING with money...even think for people.

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Well, true Bobby Gentry never said what they threw off the bridge but she also didn't say why Billy Joe committed suicide because she didn't know, not necessarily because she wanted to leave anything up to anyones imagination. She wrote the song after hearing an incident of someone jumping to their death off the bridge. That person was not really named Billy Joe and because there was no suicide note left she left the reason behind the suicide blank. She wrote the song as an ode to the incident and how life goes on in the cruel world of the dead and dying in a small town. It wasn't until Warner Bros wanted to make a movie from it that they hired a writer and he was the force behind the story that we got in the movie.

Thousands die every day for no reason at all, where's your bleeding heart for them?

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"If the film were remade today, that detail would of course be changed completely."

it would be redacted [edited ] through the lens of compulsory sexual morality and 1980's sex abuse obsessed morality. In those time there was no gay age of consent. This has be created since homosexual law reform. you could be 13 or 33, you were still guilty of a criminal offence and if caught subjected to the rulr of law and all it involves. This is still the case in certain theocracies.

Kiwiboy62

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Emmmm, I think you might want to re-watch the movie, and have another listen to the song. Maybe even read the book.
What Bobbie Lee & Billy Joe 'threw' off the bridge was, indeed, Benjamin, Bobbie Lee's childhood doll.

Love me, love my

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I fell in love with the song when it was new. I listened to it over and over. I heard all the talk about it in its day. I saw the movie when it came out and I might have had a reservation or two about how the story was treated.

As far as the original song, a lot was left to the imagination. Yet, even though Bobbie Gentry didn't spell out everything, many have theorised based on the actual title, "Ode To Billie Joe," and other facts. The movie script and the song lyrics don't necessarily mesh.

Peace,
John Martin, 47

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Of course the book and the movie agree - the book is a novelization of the movie screenplay (written after the movie came out to capitalize on the movie's polularity). The song (which came first by several years) was intentionally vague about details, in order to focus on the Narrator's loneliness and the family's detachment form her emotional pain.

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No way was it a baby; it was the doll. Besides, if it had been a baby, do you really think they would be throwing it off the bridge for anyone to see (and Taylor saw them)?

The wild, cruel animal is not behind the bars of a cage. He is in front of it.

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I think I didn't word that correctly for what I meant. We know it wasn't a baby, but if it had been, they probably would have found a better place to dispose of the body than the river. There would have been too much chance of it getting snagged by a fisherman or even ending up on a bank. It's the country; they could have buried it in the woods or left it in a ravine for animals to find.



The wild, cruel animal is not behind the bars of a cage. He is in front of it.

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I'm not your darling and your context is offensive.

The wild, cruel animal is not behind the bars of a cage. He is in front of it.

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You've obviously never had a miscarriage. Am I right? Anyway...No. NO pregnancy. Just saw it again. He couldn't get it up with the girl and if you saw it in theaters in its original state, said he liked it with the guy. Just like he couldn't get into the hookers or the dancer. He tried to be what he had been brought up to see as normal, but that just wasn't the way he was.

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As someone else has already said, Billy Joe never says he liked "it." He simply says, "I knew" after Bobbie Lee implies that he didn't know what he was doing because he was drunk. And after saying that she couldn't be wrong about him, he replies, "Well, you are wrong." In that moment, Billy Joe is all but admitting to Bobbie Lee that he is in fact a "man like that." He finally accepts that reality, but ultimately cannot accept himself.


Sister, when I've raised hell, you'll know it!

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And if she'd had a baby I suspect her family might have noticed! An aborted fetus would have been disposed of by the abolitionist

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I think so, too. Except for the homosexuality part. There's no indication of that in the least. Young people have forbidden sex all the time.

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It has time for Bobby Lee to grow up and learn the facts of life regarding Billy Joe. And that was the symbol of the doll being thrown from the bridge.Billy Joe McAllister was gay.

"I have nipples, Greg. Could you milk me?"

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