Egg salad


For years after I saw this movie, I couldn't bear to watch anyone eating an egg salad sandwich -- for obvious reasons.

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I saw this movie but what was with egg salad?????? I guess I missed something!

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She ordered a egg sandwich with extra egg salad. It was such a turnoff watching her eat it. It was all over her face and falling out of the sandwich. I think at that moment her husband lost all respect for her & realized what a slob his wife is. It was discusting!

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I know what you mean. I never liked egg salad to begin with and after the movie I hated it even more

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Two examples of product placement close together in the movie - (1) Milky Way bars and (2) International House of Pancakes, now more popularly (possibly even officially) known as IHOP.

Milky Ways are my favorite candy bar. I can't see how anyone could have munched on a Milky Way before bedtime one night and then go to IHOP the next day and ordered something other than chocolate chip pancakes!

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If you watched her eat it and can't figure out what was wrong with it you'd probably eat egg salad with it all over your face too and think its fine.

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That was no excuse for the husband to think about leaving his wife. All it took was communicating to her on how to better her habits. He was smitten with Ms Blondie only because she looked like Barbie. Perhaps she reminded him of his childhood days when the stinker played with dolls.

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It just shows how shallow men can be---I mean really, so the love of his life gets a little messy with her food, big deal! He did communicate to her that she had food around her mouth area, but the look he gave her was enough to make her feel totally pathetic and worthless.
Anyhoo!! It IS a comedy and a very good one. In fact The Heartbreak Kid is in my top 50 favorite movies list.

btw, I LOVE egg salad sandwich and, coincidently, had actually planned on having one today.

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I like egg salad.....But with a malted??????? Yuck!

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Lighten up. It was a great scene.

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Pink Flamingos had already turned me off of eggs!

But I know what you mean!

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Love all. Trust a few. Do wrong to none. - Shakespeare

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"That was no excuse for the husband to think about leaving his wife. All it took was communicating to her on how to better her habits."

Holy cow. Well...OK, maybe that works out better in your house than it would in mine, or in anybody else's I've ever been in.

I mean, part of what makes this film border on greatness is the fact that you try to be judgmental about the guy, but then, who wants somebody who's such a slob, who doesn't seem to care about her appearance or manner, who seems to care only about telling him incessantly how much she just wuuuuvs him? It's not like the Lenny character invented the notion of self-respect being attractive or utter dependency being unattractive--or, for that matter, how people too often make themselves attractive when they're on the prowl, and then fall apart once the "catch" is made. But then when you try to understand _that_, you think, why the hell did he go along with the marriage in the first place? And you have to feel sorry for the woman, at least a little bit. Every character has conflicting aspects about them in that way, which I guess is why I consider this one of the great black comedies ever--and the more you look into it thematically, the blacker and more disturbing it gets.

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I'd forgotten all about this movie until they decided to do a remake. I can't imagine it will be anywhere near as good as the original, although I do enjoy Ben Stiller.

My favorite scenes were the egg salad sandwich and when he decides to take his wife out to dinner to break up with her because he is sure she won't make a scene in public, and, of course, she goes ballistic!

It was all so hilarious and so sad at the same time. Charles Grodin was excellent and so pathetic in his quest for the next brass ring and never being satisfied with what he had.

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I just saw this film for the first time & my favorite part was watching Lenny make up all the excuses to leave his wife in the hotel & go meet Kelly. Classic. Ironically I thought the movie was somewhat slow, ironic only because in about two hours he gets married twice. Cute film though.

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It has been years since I've seen this movie but somehow I thought about it today and looked it up on IMDB and read the posts.

Seeing it when it came out and seeing a few YOUTUBE clips today and reading posts has made me think. I still ache thinking what Lila went through, thinking she married and was going to be happy forever, only to be thrust the harshest sword of her life. But I also felt Charles Grodin's character's agony that he may have made a terrible mistake....I too, have been drawn in by someone, only to discover later their "flaws", and wonder if I could ever live with those "flaws".

But I have to admit, I did chuckle at the wedding night scene when Lila was circleing her husband's chest and he remarked how it irrating him, so she remarked that she'd make squares! Quick humer there.

I'm most puzzled by Kelly's decision to marry this person. I cannot believe that anyone would marry someone to defy their parent. I think I understand Charles Grodin's character/motive...although he'll never be happy.

So far the post's haven't discussed Kelly's motives/personality. Anyone?

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Yeah, I've thought about that too. Might help to think of the whole thing as theater--as in, maybe her character wasn't meant to be particularly round or real.

But then, that's sort of a cop-out, I guess. I remember when I first saw the film, it just struck me that--as in real life, so many times--you ascribe all these mystical qualities to someone based on looks, and then it turns out she's just kind of a dullard herself, once she's run through her bag of "let me show you this" stuff...so that here, for instance, you have someone who really just fills the role of husband, preferably an adoring and worshipful husband, and she really offers nothing of her own. There's nowhere for this to go, in other words. He's in no better shape than he was with Lila; in fact, he IS Lila.

I guess what I'm saying is, there's really no less motivation for Kelly than there is for about a million real-life situations I've seen--not that the "real-life" standard should be used to defend a gap in the believability of fiction.

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You are so right. He does end up being Lila!!

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I think Kelly comes across as witty and sophisticated when he first meets her, but by the time she's married, it's clear that she's just a Wasp version of Lila. And he tires of her even more quickly.

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I'm not that fond of egg salad anyway, ugh. I couldn't stand those long frosted nails of hers -- just nasty-looking.

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As soon as she ordered double egg salad, Lenny looked queasy, probably thinking about the foul flatulance that would follow.
















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It was a brilliant scene, so gross. LOL.

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It was if it was the first time he'd ever seen her eat, for Pete's sake. I'm watching it now for the first time and turning it off. It's almost as if he'd never MET the woman before they went on their honeymoon!

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I just watched it too. And I kept thinking how well did they know each other before getting married?
It's like they were strangers. But I guess even back in 1972 people still got married because it was what you did, it was expected, so marrying someone you barely knew might have been common since you never knew if anyone else would ever come along.

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agreed, what an odd choice for a meal.

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