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Sean Bury (Paul) email address


If you'd like to contact Sean Bury his email address is
[email protected]

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Hi..... Sorry for late reply, I have only just seen this .... in case anyone wrote to me at that address ([email protected])... I must apologise... it went west with my old computer in 2005! I had no idea that coolchic had put it up.... you must think me awful for not responding. In case you have any questions... please to my current mail since 2005... [email protected].... lots of love and may all your Gods be with you. Sean Bury

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Here is a recent letter from Sean Bury whose email address is [email protected]. I asked him how a 2nd sequel to Friends might have gone. Here is his reply:

Dear Stephen and Judith,

Thank you so much for taking the trouble to write to me. . . and thank you for making such an effort in compiling kind thoughts of people who were touched by "Friends".

I was such a lucky lad way back then, in my someone else ago days. You see, I have been more and more drawn to that period in my life just recently and in particular . . to the filming of "Friends", From people of a similar age to myself . . all sharing an awakening that the film seemed to touch at that moment in their lives. . . indeed it was brought to my attention by a "Friend" of my own that it would seem to hold a nostalgic moment for so many.

Having been in the "business" since the tender age of 8, I realised from an early age that a production, be it Theatre, Radio or Film, is created very much by a team of people. Upon which it's success or failure depends, as much on timing, as anything else, "Friends" was of it's time, And it reminds those of us who care to remember that life was different then, simpler.. . I am not sure, but I am sure of the very fond memories during it's making and being part of all those who made "friends".

The film had such good luck to have Elton John and Bernie Taupin writing a few songs literally weeks prior to their meteoric rise to fame. . . with the wonderful craftsman Paul Buckmaster and his haunting orchestration to the theme.

As you say. . your question is dealing with the fictional lives of the characters Paul and Michelle. I had played with the idea of making the final sequence years later, but each time I started the creative process over 10 years ago now, I could not help thinking that some things are best left incomplete. . . my reasoning is that life as much as we would like it to be, is not very neat and tidy. I did not feel the risk was worth offending the memories of those who remembered Friends.

Paul and Michelle . . the follow on was made partly due to the fact that Friends had had such a huge commercial success in Asia and the far east notably Japan, it made sense to make a follow up. I was in discussions with Lewis to make another film straight after P&M . . "Seven nights in Japan". . . But I had already decided that my career in acting was not where my heart lay.

So when he phoned me a few years later to ask me if I wanted a small role in a bond movie just as a bit of fun. . . I replied yes, but on one condition, my brother who had been classically trained as an actor at the "Bristol Old Vic" had not shared the same fortune of roles that I had. . and certainly no where near the good fortunes of the chap he shared his digs with there. . . young chap called Jeremy Irons. . .wonder whatever happened to him ?. Would he (Lewis Gilbert) be willing to give my brother a job as well. . of course he said. . . So you see, at the tender age of 8 I made a film called "Beware of the dog" and my brother was in that with me, as well as "The Spy who loved me". . . . Some 13 years. . the span of my career as an actor!
kind regards. Sean Bury.

ps. . my dear friend is slowly wringing a book out of me (she is very patient) she is a bollywood film producer. .. and threatening to engage me as an Irish Guru in one of her up and coming productions if I do not hurry up the writing ! Paul wearing a turban and repeating mantras all day? Who knows. . . this is a strange world we all live in now, so very very far from the one Paul and Michelle lived in.

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Here is a third email from Sean Bury ([email protected]). I am quite sure he would not mind our sharing this heart-felt and very heavy email with all of you. My wife and I are deeply grateful to Sean Bury for writing it. It is so tender and touching:

Hi Stephen and Judith,

Please forgive me, but my Friend Anicee died nearly 10 years ago this coming November 6th... her wonderful husband rang me that same evening with a voice so full of deep sadness ... It was all I could do just to thank him and express my deepest empathy for him and all the children .... and even now I still find it painful to discuss, some days I can and some when I just just cannot..... this is a cannot day.

The pain never goes... as I am sure you know the feeling when you lose someone with whom you realise suddenly that you were very close to when you were at an important moment of growing up.

But you learn to live with it... then you realise that you haven't thought about her for the last few hours..... then a few days... then a whole week passes.

As I mentioned, sometimes in life things are best left the way they were.... I am a fervent believer it is part of the greater plan of things......

That last meeting we had nearly a year before in 2005 had been quite revealing to both of us.... and very moving in an emotional way. We were both amazed and also sorry to have lost contact for so long.... but that did not diminish our friendship or our respect for each other as very young professional actors all those years before.

I cannot hide it.... but neither of us was very fond of the other off screen... just mutual professional regard for the other.... no one believed us of course. We were always playing pranks on each other.... till it got out of hand. But that's for the book... that I hope may get published. ... But I am not holding my breath. As my dear Indian friend has taught me.... She says "If it is written in the sands of time..... then it will happen...... But the winds of time will one day erode even the faintest of memories of it's passing. But the heavens shall know it forever"..

Please don't be offended... But I left the acting life I once knew behind me so many years ago now.... This is a different chapter in my life..... like all of us.... we all have many chapters and at the very least one good story in us all. I am certainly blessed with so many wonderful memories... and that is where I would like to keep them. I learnt that to walk away from that wonderful magical life... was probably the best thing for me at that time. I still have no regrets ... in fact I still believe that I am the luckiest guy I know ! These days I work late shifts.... and I blend quietly into the background..... but the same message of love is still passed out through me.. maybe to a lot fewer people in one go these days... :) a far cry from that other Sean. But that's the only difference.

I shall write to Paramount Japan to see if they have any plans to clean up P&M VHS copy and to release it on DVD... But I doubt it.... I have very little influence over such matters.... But you never know till you try.

Keep the ideas flowing...... and may you both continue to love and give support to each other.... it's all way too short.

Love, light and magic.

Sean Bury.

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I was fortunate enough to get ahold of Sean Bury recently (2014) and share with him the impact that Friends had on me in my twenties, how deeply affected I was by the film and also by the death of Ms. Alvina at 53 years old in 2006 of lung cancer. Here, for your enjoyment is a humble reply to my email by Sean:


Hi Stephen,
 
Firstly, may I thank you so much for taking the time to write to express how those films made you feel... It was all such a long time ago now. But it has lingered in the hearts of so many and I am always humbled to receive mails from those for whom it had a special meaning.
 
As you say Anicee was a very beautiful kind lady. I have just had my 60th birthday a few days ago.... and am still receiving very touching letters from all over the world. I keep the fond memories of the making of the film in my heart and so appreciate the touching response from those who, like you, have taken the trouble to write to me. I recently made contact with a chap in Thailand at scorpion DVDs ( @ Amazon) Nathan has been kind enough to sell me a few copies of "Friends" that was released by Paramount Japan (so I am led to believe). It might be worth your while looking him up and seeing if he has a suitable copy for your part of the world. I know the copies work here in the UK as my step grand daughters have recently finally got to see it.
 
P and M was never released on DVD as far as I am aware. I have no contact with the industry I used to know since the small part I played in the Bond film "The Spy who loved me"... and I only did that because Lewis Gilbert was kind enough to ring me and ask if I wanted a small part in it..... so more out of curiousity than serious professional commitment I did it... with my elder brother in it too!
 
I think the film captured a moment in time of 2 young kids growing up in real life..... and Lewis's very careful handling of not only the characters but also of Anicee and myself during the process of rehearsals and subsequent shooting. The wonderfully good fortune of Elton's music and the musical arrangement of Paul Buckmaster..... like so many things in life..... you can have the best ingredients in a cooking pot.... but you are never sure of the outcome. The result was I still think just a very sweet little film that caught a moment in time that resonated with so many.
 
I thank you from the bottom of my heart and wish you both a wonderful continuation of life.... and may joy and happines follow both you and Judith all your days.
 
Kind regards and very humbled
 
Sean Bury

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This thread has a number of outdated email addresses which make it a frustration if you want to write to Sean Bury (Paul) in the movie Friends. To be clear, as of 2015, the proper email address is [email protected] . To that end, I and my wife Judith wrote him three times about various topics and he replied with deep, heartfelt emails which are all posted in this thread.

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It's too bad the movie is not on DVD, or if it is, hard to get a hold of for many fans of the film. I saw a little bit of the first film on YT. It sounds like an interesting film from that era. That was sweet of Sean to write you. Hopefully someday both movies will be available for a new generation to enjoy them.

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