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Classic Film or Bigoted Garbage?


I've seen The Boys in the Band twice. I don't tire of it. I realize it is a snapshot of gay life among a group of gay men during a specific time and place.

In spite of the release of other gay theme films of varying quality, this film still resonates.

Now that is has been out for nearly 40 years, how about it? Is it a classic film or bigoted garbage?

I have no basis for comparison because I was 6 years old in 1970. I have my circle of friends as an adult and we are far different from the men in that movie. But, we came of age during a different time in history. Homosexuality was not a mental illness. Gay people were becoming more visible too. It was better but far from ideal.

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I wasn't even alive in 1970 and I feel like this is extremely realistic for 2009. Minus the clothing and hair, I might have even thought this was released in the past few years. Every gay man I know can be compared to at least one of these characters.

This is Paris? It's just like Texas to me.

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"I wasn't even alive in 1970 and I feel like this is extremely realistic for 2009. Minus the clothing and hair, I might have even thought this was released in the past few years. Every gay man I know can be compared to at least one of these characters. "

As can I with my friends. But the comparisons for me focus on the positive happy go lucky side of these men not the negative side. My gay friends have their burdens to bear. But, being gay is not one of those burdens.

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The young men around me are just coming out or finally learning comfortable terms with their sexuality. So in a way their "burdens" are about "being gay". Which is similar but not as extreme as the characters in this film because they've had a longer life time of grief.

This is Paris? It's just like Texas to me.

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As you say, it definitely captures a time and a place, a very transitional time.

And New York was the place.

I wouldn't have missed either for the world.

It's a classic.

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No contest. Classic Film.

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You must be trolling if you're saying this is bigoted garbage. It was a brave new piece of work that reflected the reality of a time and place, and very honestly. And in spite of it being "gay" you could easily attribute those insecurities to anyone, gay or straight. We're all just lost, looking to belong, looking for love. Some just do it in a more camp and fun way.

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...This IS bigoted garbage, written by someone who turned on his own kind by selling out, telling the straight community exactly what they wanted to see, hear, and thought about gays already!!!!!!!

Any gay who validates this crap should be barred from the community he claims to inhabit!!!!!!!!!
I say this respectfully but that's bullsh*t. If all gay men thought and felt like you the community would be one boring insular place still stuck in the pre-Stonewall way of thinking.

When this movie (and the play) came out there was nothing like it out there. There were no movies that focused solely on gays or presented us as actual complex human beings with loves and lives and issues and friends.

Sure, there's a lot of self loathing and vitriol within the film but that was a direct reflection of how many gays were actually feeling at that time---dealing with the aftermath of decades of repression stomped out by Stonewall and slowly embracing their sexuality as something to be celebrated instead of something to ashamed of.

This movie is an important part of gay history that helped make us much more visible to society as a whole and helped open doors for other gay films.

You don't have to like the movie. You don't have to be a fan of the movie. But you can't deny the impact this movie had, and still has, on the gay community and society as a whole.

Without this movie you wouldn't have Will & Grace or Queer As Folk or any other gay themed television shows or films.

I wish you would elaborate more on why you feel this movie is crap and why any gay man who likes it should be banished from the community.

Just saying....

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I never said Will & Grace was any good. It was pure garbage (Queer As Folk as well). However, it was garbage that was possible because of films like Boys in the Band. There's no denying that.

The only thing I really take issue with is your self-righteousness, especially in saying: "Anyone who thinks (Boys in the Band) is good...(you) question the validity of his homosexualilty."

That's just ridiculous. I respect that you don't like the film however, who says a film has to be "good" or "empowering" to be groundbreaking or trailblazing?

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If something is truly groundbreaking is not empowering, then what good is it?????
Because it breaks down barriers. It doesn't have to be good or empowering, it just has to open the door.

Ever hear of someone named Tennessee Willliams, honeychile'? His plays did more for gay men than the crap Crowley wrote!!!!!!!!
Agreed (but moreso Tennessee's short stories than plays), but it doesn't devalue what Crowley wrote. What I know about Tennessee would blow you away.

Like I said in the other post, I can't take you seriously so I think I'm done here.

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If being a disciple of Sarah Palin for the sake of creature comforts makes you happy, I cannot stop that!!!!! But do not invite me to your tea party, Alice!!!!!!
Huh? You seriously gleaned this about me from my post discussing Boys in the Band?

Wow. Either you're a whack job of the highest order or the swishy elitist bitch you're presenting yourself as is your online persona.

Either way I can't take you seriously but you are good for a laugh.

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LOL!

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ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!

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Have you seen "Spelendor In The Grass?" Have you ever heard of it????? Well, I lived it!!!!!!!! I was Natalie Wood!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOL! That's explains a lot (and is certianly something I wouldn't brag about)!

I'll keep checking in on you because you're a constant source of entertainment.

I'm still not taking you seriously.

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Get medication to this person immediately.


"I'm going nowhere fast... and you're not coming." -LP

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It's just a great film with great acting and biting witty dialogue.

I am not gay so perhaps I was not offended by some the characters and lines because of that. However,I'm not sure how many who say they are offended really are, they may just be saying that because it's the polically correct thing to do.

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"swishy elitist *****" I love it.

I must say, I've greatly enjoyed reading this discussion. This debate has been engaging, insightful, and at times quite humorous.

I'm a heterosexual who hasn't seen the film, so my opinion on it is probably nil, but I gather from the discussion that the story's author gave a self-depreciating view which offered pathos for the gay community. If that's the case, I could see it going either way. On one hand, it's a reflection of the way the author - and many others like him - felt at the time. On the other hand, it could be argued as being self-pitying rather than empowering and playing into the hands of their detractors.

I will say this much though, it likely would have been a tougher sell if it was an empowering story. It may have been telling heterosexuals what they wanted to hear, while still offering pathos, but it may have also helped to raise awareness of the gay community. Of course, one doesn't fight prejudice by playing into it. Mark Twain's Adventures of Huckleberry Finn was meant to raise awareness of the black man's plight in the south, but it's mostly remembered today for playing into the racism of the time period - the same prejudice it was supposed to be fighting. Something like that is well intentioned, but ultimately counterproductive.

I don't know. I guess it's better than no representation, though it doesn't sound like the kind I'd want if I were in that position.

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However,I'm not sure how many who say they are offended really are, they may just be saying that because it's the polically correct thing to do.
Exactly.

My partner has never seen the film but he refuses to watch it. He says: "I hate that movie. It's about a bunch of self loathing gay men yelling at each other."

And I say: "How do you know if you've never seen it?"

And he says: "Because I heard about it."

Ridiculous.

I tell him it's no different than Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolfe except with gay men instead of married couples.

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I see you're back.

And no, my partner isn't right. I would respect his opinion if he actually saw the movie but to form an opinion based on heresay is ridiculous.

I think what each gay feels about or takes away from this movie is a direct reflection on their perception of what being gay is all about.

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MY obeservtions on being gay are FIRST AND FOREMOST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So, what are you? The Queen of queens?

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And delusional on top of that but I think we already established that in earlier posts.

At least we both agree that what each gay feels about or takes away from this movie is a direct reflection on their perception of what being gay is all about.

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Yes, except some perceptions are more valid than othes!
How do you come to that conclusion? Based on what? Ego?

Now kneel down and kiss my ruby ring!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is that what you call your junk? Keeping dreaming baby!



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You need to learn to sit up straight and sip sodas daintily at the fountain, so you can get discovered, like Lana Turner!!!!!!!!!!!
You're slipping into incoherency ---too many gin and tonics perhaps?

Let's get back to discussing The Boys in the Band. You've never fully explained your reasoning behind your dislike of the film outside of a bunch of campy non sequiturs.

I would love to hear your reasons without the unneccessary swishy camp, capitalizations and exclamation points. You mention a lot of what you would respond with is over "on the other thread".

What other thread?

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by mhearn (Tue Mar 22 2011 14:39:10)
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A lot of what I would respond to here is over on the other thread. And who said "Will and Grace" was any good???? Except for Blythe Danner as his mother, I could care less. Jack and Karen were like Amos n' Andy!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, it was in relation to Boys

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I don't expect them to behave happily,darling! I expect them to be EMPOWERED!~!!!!!!
Yes, but the first step to empowerment is loving yourself.

Like AnjuneVero said, this film was released a year after the Stonewall riots and the play itself was written and produced on the stage a year before Stonewall.

I think Emory was the most empowered of all of the characters. He was openly gay and flamboyant and was not ashamed or apolegetic about it. He may not have been the most physically or emotionaly strongest character but he certianly was the most empowered.

Sterotypical characters aside, I believe it was a direct representation of how many gay men felt about being gay at the time. Didn't Crowley base some of the characters on people he knew? The characters were dealing with self-loathing and a lack of a sense of worth that was a direct result of decades, even a lifetime, of oppression.

The characters, and gay men at the time, would need to develop a sense of worth and love of themselves before becoming empowered. In the gay community at large the result of this empowerment was the gay sexual revolution of the '70s.

It was (and still is) a very slow process for gay men to feel as empowered as they do today.

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Fair enough. You hate the movie and the play for your own personal reasons. I can respect that.

However, no one is empowered from the moment they're sprung from the womb. Gimme a break.

Sheesh.

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And who are we to judge, darling???????????????????????????
Not judgment, just fact. A newborn baby does not pop out of his or her mother empowered.

Puhleease

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I'm not doubting you were gay from the get-go. So was I.

What I do know is you didn't pop out of your mother wearing a pink crop top, waving a rainbow flag shouting: "I'm queer! I'm here! Get used to it!"

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"I loathe narcissism, but I approve of vanity."

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It's a Diana Vreeeland quote....

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Honey, are you aware enough to recognize the IMPORTANCE of Diana Vreeland???????


Hmmm... are you aware enough to recognize her importance since you didn't even realize I was quoting her?

I'm a gay man in his 40s who has a degree in fashion design.

So, you do the math.

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Listen, darling, I happen to own the book "The Power of Style," so I am quite familiar not only with Ms. V, but Babe Paley and Baroness Pauline de Rothschild!!!!!!!
So do I and so am I. I also have a hardback first edition of D.V.and Allure (the original pressing, not the recent reissue). So what's your point?

And what have you done with that degree. Are you working for ANNA, darling?????????
I've done very well with my degree for 15 years, thank you very much. I no longer work in the fashion industry as it's not the same as it was back in the late 80s/early 90s.

And no, I would never want to work with Anna. I would however, love to work with Grace.

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If pushed to shove, I COULD perhaps do Emory, but I would put my own stamp on it ...


I'll take your word for it. Up till now, you've just been doing a bad imitation. Your bravado notwithstanding (or because of it), and despite all of the "!!!!!" and CAPS, you're as "empowered" as anyone else who screams as the top of his lungs, thinking being the loudest and bitchiest in the room somehow means something.

The fact remains you're as transparent as glass. I've dealt with your kind for the past forty years. You're exactly the kind of fag_got that gives the rest of us fag_gots a bad name (to quote Donald).

Go away.

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Classic. Just a well written, quality film. I'd love to see the play version one day.

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I consider this a classic of the pre-aids movie era....while those that hate it...probably see too much of themselves in the characters....and I'm guessing here but probably in the character of Michael or Harold!

This movie, along with Norman, is that you? snd The Ritz - does make fun of the gay community - but guess what, they are spot on in their portrayal of life at those times. And I am glad to have them in my collection and have made many people sit through a TRIPLE FEATURE!

Pre-aids gay cinema is what it is...we must embrace it and not erase it. To deny that they are real portrayals and versions of people's lives at the time it to deny oneself a chance to learn of life, laughter, friendship and love in a world that still doesn't fully accept the gay community!

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