Minder was a dick in this.
Sometimes you have to appreciate that you're punching above your weight and try to tone down your selfishness or moodiness.
Minder seemed to pout every time any of her friends came near, and at one point he was sitting in bed, reading "Giggle", while this beautiful posh girl was making his breakfast! He throws a strop when her friend arrives, leaves his breakfast (which looked lovely, by the way), gets dressed, tucks his "Giggle" under his arm and storms off!
Most women would have told him to sling his hook, let alone a beautiful, rich bird who could have her choice of men, but she seems to bend over backwards to talk him round and make him happy. But still he continues with the boorish behaviour!
I'd like to see who he ended up with after the event at the end had worked itself out - even then she was still pining for him! Maybe she saw something in Minder that we the audience (*cough*) couldn't, if you catch my drift. In which case...I've got no chance.
No Guru, No Method, No Teacher.