Was the song 'Dominique' really unknown in France?

I would like to add that it is my theory that many people who join the priesthood or other religious orders that prohibit sex do so in part because their sexual cravings are ones that are not commonly accepted in our society. Celibacy is a major barrier for many people who would otherwise want to join these orders from joining them. However, for those whose sexual orientations are not commonly accepted in our society- pedophiles and, until recently, homosexuals, they have to pay the "price" of celibacy even if they don't join the order so thus it becomes less of a barrier for them. I know I may sound a bit cynical, but I feel this is part of the reason why we have so many priests who are pedophiles.

Your theory makes no sense. Celibacy is not what attracts anyone into religious life. Those who go into it for the right reasons are there to devote their lives to serving the Lord and helping their communities. Those people make the sacrifice of celibacy because that is part of the deal.

Sexual deviants have no plans to be celibate. Their goal is to do what they're used to doing their entire lives - LIE! They hide who and what they really are because it allows them to live the kind of lifestyle they want without scrutiny or suspicion. In fact, some people will think highly of them because of the role they play as a religious figure rather than scorn them for their deviance. If these people were truly interested in curving their sexual appetites, they would not put themselves in target rich environments.

Priests live with other men; nuns amongst women; and all tend to be in close proximity to children, young adults and other people who tend to be trusting of clerics. For a sexual deviant this is probably equivalent to a trip to Disneyland.

The ones that go that route know they'll likely encounter others who share their lifestyle. I believe this makes up a very small group of clerics but they get around and cover for each other. Even those not involved with these deviant lifestyles can unwittingly make the problem worse.

When deviant behaviors come to the attention of church leaders, they may believe the claims these people are repentant, remorseful and seeking help to change. Of course, these are all lies but well-meaning church leaders try to do what they do, 'help'. Some may also want to avoid bad publicity and damage to the church or they may keep quiet what was confessed to them as they're required to do. The problem is, by not addressing these problems openly, directly and immediately, these 'well-meaning' leaders become part of the cover up that allows the deviants to continue doing exactly what they've always done.

Problems that get driven underground grow. The bad clerics move to other areas where they find more victims. By the time the truth finally comes out, the problem is widespread but it appears bigger than it actually is. To clarify, even one victim is already too big a problem. By saying 'bigger than the problem actually is' I'm referring to perpetrators. It may seem there are more involved than actually are. Their numbers are few but they have amassed a lot of victims.

By the way, deviants don’t just hide in religious life. It's not uncommon for them to date and marry people they're not at all interested in. Those relationships give them a chance to hide and, if that's their thing, have easy access to children and their unsuspecting parent(s).

Like most crimes in general, a relatively small group of offenders tend to commit a disproportionately large number of crimes. These relatively small groups are repeat offenders so they do a lot of societal damage. I believe most of us in society and most in religious life are good, decent, and honorable people. The few truly bad ones, like the proverbial 'bad apple' are found in any bunch. If they're not identified early on then dealt with quickly, they will adversely affect and contaminate some good apples too.

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