i think it's deeper than pride
the ending shocked the hell out of me, i thought she would just go home, but it hammered home what she was actually feeling. to me the ending made the film.
i think most viewers, like the family she worked for, just didn't get how bad it was for her. I think her comparing her situation to slavery was not exactly literal, but definitely made sense. she was not being treated as a true individual, her life was expected to be her work. she was treated like property by the wife. people who have not experienced real poverty sometimes assume that the impoverished person should be fine with certain levels of abusive treatment.
this is a young woman who was coaxed from her homeland to work without any explanation of what her responsibilities would be. the wife assumed that she should take on the new responsibilities of cooking and cleaning when she was never asked to do that before. now diouana, trapped in a different country where she knows no one, and can't communicate, is to just accept her fate? she was not even allowed any personal time, or to wear clothes that made her feel good about herself. the family took no interest in the transition of a person who has left home, and everything she knew behind. anything outside of what the wife envisioned her maid to be, was simply not allowed. i can't imagine being confined to that apartment, having my every waking moment devoted to serving a woman who belittles me, and with know means for escape.
i also think that type of treatment is deliberate.
sure she could have chosen to deal with it in a host of other ways (suffer through it, teach herself to read and speak standard french, simply run away even if she has to beg, find her way back to the boat, scream back at her mistress and make demands...), but she reacted like a person who feels truly trapped and refuses to remain trapped. she felt she had no other voice. it shocked me, but it made total sense to me, and felt sort of inevitable.
"WHO'S ON TOP & WHO'S ON BOTTOM NOW, huh?! WHO'S ON TOP & WHO'S ON BOTTOM NOW!"
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