'I wish I'd never been done over'

I think it was the unexpectedness of it. If I remember that scene correctly, they were just having this sweet moment and he was taken aback by what she said and how she said it; so random and matter of fact. His reaction to it was probably more out of shock and anger at the fact that it happened to her, not directly towards her. At least that’s the way I saw it.

I think he's more frightened, and angry at himself for letting things go that far.

They are embracing and have just kissed. There is clearly passion building between them.

What she says is the kind of thing a traditional, romantic, and very young woman might say when she is about to have sex with the man of her dreams -- the man she wants to marry. She wishes he could be her first lover.

The implication is that she expects him to have sex with her, and that it will be very important to her.

It carries the triple whammy of making him realize how far things are going, while reminding him how monstrous her life has been, and how important he has become to her.

It terrifies him, and he pulls away.

People focus on the race and disability issues in this film, but there is another important aspect -- Selina is not yet 18, and has lived in a bizarre, restricted, horrible situation. In some ways she is mature beyond her years, but, in others, she is very childlike.

Gordon, being an ethical guy, doesn't want things to go further until she has been free, educated and had some other experiences of meeting people and getting to know the world.

Even if they'd been the same race and she was sighted, backing away at that moment, and carrying through with the plan for her to go to school, would have been the appropriate reaction for a man of his age with ethics.

I always thought she said "I wish I'd never been done before." Same meaning, though.