A Movie That Moved Me
This is one of my favorite films. Perhaps most striking is the speech
where Lizzie confesses she doesn't want to be in her own skin anymore -
that she'd like to Lilly Anne Beasley. The character of Starbuck allows
her to walk in those shoes momentarily. Rather than becoming Lilly Anne
she becomes Melisande - a name of his choosing because it comes at a
time when Lizzie herself is too tired to build her own dream.
The beauty of the film is the flaw of each character in it.
Those on screen are so utterly human it's almost painful to watch at times.
Each character seems to have at least one scene leaving them raw, naked, and
exposed.
A father is forced to question the way he's raised his daughter. A
younger brother struggles to learn to say no after a lifetime of yes.
An older brother has to come to terms with the fact that taking care of
his family is no longer his job. The proud sheriff cannot find
happiness without first finding the courage to admit he is unhappy. The
comsumate conman is shocked to discover not all of his words are lies
and, for maybe the first time, he can believe in what he is saying.
Last but not least is a woman balancing logic and dreams whose final
scene is choosing between the magical Melisande and the un-extraordinary
Lizzie.
In those moments of desperation she turns to her family: fists
clenched, begging for advice she never wanted before. Her father says
the one thing that makes sense in the moment. "You can't say you ain't
never been asked." That bit of knowledge gives Lizzie the strength to
choose.