I am so sick of "this wasn't the way life was" BS
...that permeates so many responses.
My family life, and my cousins and many of my friends were very MUCH like this. Oh, issues were not wrapped up in 30 minutes, everyone wasn't always in a good mood, sometimes hurtful things were said. There were bullies at school, certain foods we didn't like, loneliness when starting a new school, etc. Hurt feelings, illness, broken bones, getting on the "outs" with your friends, and all the other bumps and bruises you get in life.
But there were many, many ways that my life--and many people I knew--were much like this.
My mom was a stay at home mom. The house was spotless, always, period. (It amazes me how many non-working people I know and their homes are dumps). My sisters' chores included a top to bottom cleaning of the bathrooms every Saturday afternoon. My chores were vacuuming, taking out the trash, and when older, mowing the lawn and shoveling snow. My dad never gave allowances, but gave money for doing big jobs, such as mowing our huge lawn or waxing cars. The other household chores were simply done with no expectation of cash. My dad would chip in when I wanted to buy rockets or other hobbies. My dad and I really did build things together. He wore a sweatshirt around the house on weekends and built things. We had swings and jungle gyms out back, and we had bikes. I had a perfectly good bike, but I wanted a new 10 speed, and my dad said, you have a good bike, but if you REALLY want a 10 speed, you save for it and I will pay half. He helped my sisters with first cars, but they had to pay for most of it.
My sisters didn't have boyfriends until their senior year in high school, and didn't have "relations" until their early 20s. This wasn't considered weird or old fashioned. My mom would do occasional part time work, but the home, meals, etc never suffered. We all worked hard and were very happy. My mom and dad would occasionally have an argument, and like most couples, over something stupid. My sisters and I would occasionally fight, and then an hour later be playing "Life" or "Monopoly".
They used to have scary movies on Saturday afternoons; my mom would break out crackers, smoked oysters, cheese and pastries. We all watched and enjoyed. Quite often, the whole family played board games.
There was no chaos, no cursing, no physical abuse; there were prayers at bedtime, there were great Christmases. There were vacations in the mountains, once to Hawaii, and going back East.
We were not rich, but solid middle class. My parents didn't drink (occasional wine or beer, maybe a Whiskey Sour when they went out for a night on the town), use drugs, nor did we.
It grows so tiresome to hear people constantly harp about how people "didn't live that way". Yeah they did. I am glad they did. Please stop projecting onto others your crummy, unfortunate life with bad parents or your own lousy parenting skills and unhappiness onto the rest of us. This really was, not in all ways but in many ways, the way many of us lived in the 50s and 60s. I feel sorry if you missed it.