Anyone else annoyed by Stefan?


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Granted, Louis Jordan was a very, very fine-looking man and his acting really impressed me in the movie, but the dimension of his character was absolutely flimsy.

He was obviously a promiscuous man, had one-night stands, and I felt that he didn't deserve to be loved that much by Lisa at all. The audacity of him not remembering Lisa when they met again annoyed me so much. Was he suffering from Alzheimer or something? It was apparent that to him, Lisa just was a girl to sate his desires for a couple of days, and all the while Lisa was sacrificing so much for him, which he of course failed to realize until it was too little too late.

Or is that the whole point of the movie? Passionately loving someone who doesn't know you exist?

In any case, his character and his blatant ignorance undermined the impact that this movie could have had on me.

Does anyone care to agree or disagree?

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I think that's the point of the movie. He never deserved Lisa and didn't remember her because he was so self-centered. I believe this could really have happened. Sometimes devotion turns into obsession.

If you get a chance, watch the video essay bonus feature if you have the region 2 (with the pink cover I believe). The writer analyzes the film very well and presents several plot details and character analyses that aren't easily apparent.

He makes a point that Lisa is a masochist. She seems to love the pain and degradation. I cannot remember the specific instances, but I remember the author supported this extremely well.

http://www.amazon.com/Letter-Woman-Joan-Fontaine/dp/B000N8OWSA/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=dvd&qid=1224541518&sr=1-2

I was pink lettering, not packaging. This is the version with the commentary. It's a very deep film. I would love to watch it again.

-"Is it nothing to you that I shall hate you for this." H. Barret
-"Less than nothing." E.B.

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If you get a chance, watch the video essay bonus feature if you have the region 2 (with the pink cover I believe). The writer analyzes the film very well and presents several plot details and character analyses that aren't easily apparent.

His name is Tag Gallagher, historian, scholar and biographer(though not well known in the country of his origin...the USA). His interests include John Ford, Roberto Rossellini, Kenji Mizoguchi, King Vidor, Douglas Sirk, Josef von Sternberg, Max Ophuls and...Abel Ferrara.

His observations about Letter... are available in written form online as part of the long essay, "Max Ophuls : A New Art, but who notices?"
http://www.sensesofcinema.com/contents/02/22/ophuls.html

Read the sub-heading, "Letter" dedicated to analysing the film.

He makes a point that Lisa is a masochist. She seems to love the pain and degradation. I cannot remember the specific instances, but I remember the author supported this extremely well.

That's not what he said exactly. Mr. Gallagher doesn't use "masochist" as a word to throw around and the like. You have to read what he says in detail to understand what he means by that.

Here's an excerpt

"The same masochism pervades the movie, but since we experience it from Lisa's point of view, we don't see it as masochism. Instead, we share her delight in dedicating herself; we see her as she sees herself – as a Romantic saint. As in La signora, Ophuls involves us in madness. But none of this makes Lisa less sympathetic, or her suffering less real."


[Emphasis added]

The film is narrated in third person, the bulk of which is her first person narration and he's basically pointing out how subjective her story is. Not that he sees "subjective" as something Rashomon-esque where she's supposed to be lying or making up stuff but certainly in how she speaks of herself, how she sees herself and since it's her letter telling the story how she reveals herself to the man she loves.

Her love for Stefan is a kind of madness, like all kinds of love but especially romantic love. It's in essence a love for an ideal rather than the real that sustains both characters throughout their lives.


"Ça va by me, madame...Ça va by me!" - The Red Shoes

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Lisa is as much self-centered as him. She falls in love with him even before seeing him. She is a young girl that just want to fall in love. But even becoming a mother and marrying a man, she never grows up. She still lingers to the idea of loving a great man that never existed. This dooms her, her son and in the end will cause the duel (possibly killing her loved man).
All in all, both are quite self-centered, childish person.

'What has been affirmed without proof can also be denied without proof.' (Euclid)

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I don't think Lisa is a masochist and she wouldn't have left his apartment towards the end if she was. Actually, she's the opposite in some ways as she is someone who is unwilling to accept the general conditions of her society by just playing her part and I would say falls for Stefan largely because of the freedom he represents in her imagination due to his status as a famous musician.

I'd also say that she wasn't so much devoted to him as to the idea of him and as such can't accept him as a human being with faults. Part of the reason he doesn't adequately remember her is because she doesn't help him remember. After reading her letter, he remembers her quite well and knows she's somehow important to him when he sees her at the opera.

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Or is that the whole point of the movie? Passionately loving someone who doesn't know you exist?

Yes. That is the point of this film and the art of Max Ophuls, in general. He was interested in the pain caused when people fall in love, primarily on themselves but also others.

He was obviously a promiscuous man, had one-night stands, and I felt that he didn't deserve to be loved that much by Lisa at all.

People in real life constantly fall in love with people who don't "deserve" it. Besides, should "deserve" have anything to do with love in the first place? The world would be so much easier(and boring) if love was as simple as being granted to those who "deserve" it. Besides what can a person do to "deserve" love?

The audacity of him not remembering Lisa when they met again annoyed me so much.

It's meant to be annoying but, alas, it's true to life and certainly true to the philosophical character of the declining days of the Austro-Hungarian Empire. Read The Sleepwalkers by Herrmann Broch, where a guy forgets that he once killed another man. Literally. Not repressed but simply he forgot all about it. It's set in the same timeline of this film.

The film is about Romanticism which influenced and transformed Austrian culture at that time. And Stefan Brand(Louis Jordan) is romantically dedicated to his art above all other considerations just as Lisa is dedicated to him above all things. Her tragedy is that she remains dedicated towards her passion and dies when she realizes that it's false, his tragedy is that he betrays both his art and her but upon learning that "he" inspired her passion, his life is restored enough meaning that he goes and faces his death.



"Ça va by me, madame...Ça va by me!" - The Red Shoes

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great discussion, and i too missed the ending somewhat at 3 am....

i dont know if they can do justice to remake this one.

seems to me she was pretty selfish to desert her husband for him given that she has a son to take care of. if i remember correctly she was high society and was given fur and finer things in life.

funny but survival instincts wouldnt have allowed her to do what she did, especially that early morn duels were common, and ladies of ill repute ddidnt go far.

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seems to me she was pretty selfish to desert her husband for him given that she has a son to take care of. if i remember correctly she was high society and was given fur and finer things in life.

But love meant more to her then stuff like that, that's why her character is so worthy of tragedy. And you really should see the film carefully, that son was hers and Stefan's not the one with her husband.

...funny but survival instincts wouldnt have allowed her to do what she did,...

Survival instincts is what allowed her into that marriage in the first place. Why she worked at a very ill-reputed job as a model in a designer(where picking up such girls by aristocracts was common).



"Ça va by me, madame...Ça va by me!" - The Red Shoes

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“People in real life constantly fall in love with people who don't "deserve" it. Besides, should "deserve" have anything to do with love in the first place? The world would be so much easier(and boring) if love was as simple as being granted to those who "deserve" it. Besides what can a person do to "deserve" love?”

What I meant was that he had mistreated Lisa and that she was better than him. She really deserved someone better and his actions didn’t warrant that sort of deep love Lisa felt. I’m not criticizing the film; I can see a similar scenario playing out somewhat regularly in real life. I was just making an observation.

Re: Gallager. I watched his essay on “The Earrings of Madame de…” and was again impressed. He really clarified a lot. I believed he referred to masochistic behavior in Louise.

“And Stefan Brand(Louis Jordan) is romantically dedicated to his art above all other considerations just as Lisa is dedicated to him above all things.”

Drinking and screwing around seem to become more important than his art. I think he admits it toward the end. He expresses regret over Louise and not being more dedicated to his music.





-"Is it nothing to you that I shall hate you for this." H. Barret
-"Less than nothing." E.B.

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I’m not criticizing the film;

I didn't say you were. Your point is very valid and worth arguing and obviously from a position of someone who engaged with the film.

What I meant was that he had mistreated Lisa and that she was better than him.

Better? Objectively she's a lower class girl who managed to worm her way to high society through a series of obscure ways. Is being a social climber(albeit a very romantic and nice sort) "better" as opposed to a struggling self-destructive artist?

In any case Stefan when he first meets her has no idea that he was the object of desire of this young woman since she was a girl. She was a girl like any other for him and he treated her as such. The film is very subjective and told from her point of view which means that it demands to be seen repeatedly to get the details. Like when Stefan saw Lisa at that modelling place and walked with her and spent the evening with her. She says on the narration that she wasn't like those other girls who worked there(girls used to being picked up by such men as Stefan) but as far as Stefan was concerned she was like those girls and he had no idea that she wasn't or that she saw herself as different. He was very nice and romantic with her, just as he was likely with the other girls he met.

That doesn't make him evil just shows how limited and restricted he was by his social background. In the Austrian society of this period, men of that social background had freedom to spend time with and then disown such women and forget about them. Women who are more realistic than Lisa, would be aware of this and try and survive as best as they can in that unfair world, the film however shows this from her point of view and how she sees things.

Drinking and screwing around seem to become more important than his art.

Not at first. Only afterwards.


"Ça va by me, madame...Ça va by me!" - The Red Shoes

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I see what you mean about the objective of Lisa. I was thinking about your point. Stephan, according to the times wasn't behaving in an evil manner, but definitely a bit caddish.

"Like when Stefan saw Lisa at that modelling place and walked with her and spent the evening with her. She says on the narration that she wasn't like those other girls who worked there(girls used to being picked up by such men as Stefan) but as far as Stefan was concerned she was like those girls and he had no idea that she wasn't or that she saw herself as different."

You are right on here. I believe you've helped me find another layer in the film. Thanks. I'd love to watch it again. I originally saw the film through inter-library loan on a region 2 version. This is one of the few films that was to me worth having to watch on a computer monitor.

Do you think that Stefan would have acted differently if Lisa would have told of their past history? Maybe at their third encounter if she had come clean, he may have seen in her something different. I am referring to their encounter once she had married the aristocrat. He probably just saw her as a social-climbing housewife looking for the novelty of bedding a musician. That leads me to another question. Why did Lisa not tell him of their past encounters and the son they shared? Was it romanticism? Was she proud of her role as a sort of martyr?



-"Is it nothing to you that I shall hate you for this." H. Barret
-"Less than nothing." E.B.

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Do you think that Stefan would have acted differently if Lisa would have told of their past history?

I don't think so, in fact if that did happen we wouldn't have a film at all. The entire film pivots on the fact that he gets this image of his entire life from the point of view of another person in one sitting. If he had known that before he probably would see her as insincere or naive and treat her childishly and the like.

Maybe at their third encounter if she had come clean, he may have seen in her something different. I am referring to their encounter once she had married the aristocrat. He probably just saw her as a social-climbing housewife looking for the novelty of bedding a musician.

Well at that point he was long gone from the man she had known. It's difficult really, because Stefan like other men in that world has a value system that cannot understand and accept Lisa, an innocent almost pure human being(I don't mean pure in the sense of virginity). To them and to society, women are either wife, mistress or whore and Lisa's life shows how there's a fair degree of overlap in those three fields and someone like Lisa with her own view on world, her soul and strength is inconceivable. Stefan could only fall in love with her after she had died which is part of Romanticism as well. He can only get a sense of his failure after all that. And that sense of defeat gives him the strength to go to that duel and to death. It goes straight into the beauty of tragedy that is people get a sense of catharsis, of acceptance before they die.

Why did Lisa not tell him of their past encounters and the son they shared? Was it romanticism? Was she proud of her role as a sort of martyr?

One can never know. It might also be for the sake of the boy. She wants the child to have a safe home with her husband and to suddenly disrupt that by involving Stefan isn't really smart.



"Ça va by me, madame...Ça va by me!" - The Red Shoes

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In the original story by Stefan Zweig, Stefen is a writer, and after reading her letter he still can't remember her. He is an even more cold hearted egoist. Ophuls added the element of music which ties all of the events of the film together, the servant, and the duel, a feature of many of Ophul's films.

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Like when Stefan saw Lisa at that modelling place and walked with her and spent the evening with her. She says on the narration that she wasn't like those other girls who worked there(girls used to being picked up by such men as Stefan) but as far as Stefan was concerned she was like those girls and he had no idea that she wasn't or that she saw herself as different


Yes, I agree. It's interesting that when Stefan brings Lisa home, we watch from the same camera angle as when Lisa watched Stefan bring the woman home earlier in the film, perhaps to show that Stefan's perception of her is the same as the other woman earlier in the film. For all we know, there's another Lisa watching from further upstairs.

Or is that the whole point of the movie? Passionately loving someone who doesn't know you exist?

In any case, his character and his blatant ignorance undermined the impact that this movie could have had on me.


Isn't that the point? The danger of idealized love? The audience is supposed to identify with Lisa's longing, but they are also supposed to see that he is unworthy of such love. We are supposed to agree with Lisa's husband that her feelings for Stefan are 'romantic nonsense.' We can see that her tragedy is her stubborn idealized view of romance but at the same time we feel incredibly sorry for her and empathise with her. We want for Lisa to be with Stefan as much as she does.

Note that when he tries to introduce himself she interrupts him with 'I know who you are' and makes no effort to introduce herself. She won't seek his help in raising her son, even though it's implied she becomes a prostitute. She leaves his apartment without telling him anything. The audience is supposed to know that Lisa should realize there was a distinct possibility that he wouldn't remember her since she knew about his philandering. They know that if Stefan doesn't know Lisa, then ultimately Lisa doesn't really know Stefan either. The Stefan that Lisa loves and the real Stefan are not the same person.

It's what makes it such an incredible, sad film. We feel Lisa's pain but we also see her flaws.

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If Stefan saw Lisa as "just like those other girls" why the phoney 5 star build up required i.e, "so nice and romantic."
If that's not "evil" it comes near enough.

There is nothing "ideal" about the relationship between worthless tripe Stefan and dopey train wreak Lisa. Lisa was no "saint", romantic or otherwise.
If there was a substantive differentiation between Stefan's self serving treatment of Lisa and Lisa's cut throat treatment of her husband it wasn't readily apparent, save that Lisa was knowingly more heartless, treacherous, and dishonerable. In a word: repugnant.

Ironically, passive agressives Lisa and Stefan are brother & sister under the skin. They richly deserved one another.

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It is highly plausible to sleep with someone and not recognize them when you meet them years later. Especially is you're as narcissistic and promiscuous as Stefan is. It's all about the conquest and self gratification. Although the last close up of him in the film actually lends an air of feeling to him as he realizes all along who Lisa is. He doesn't love himself and he realizes in this beautiful moment that someone did love him and he is worth loving after all but it is now far too late. This is one of my favorite films of all time and Joan Fontaine is truly an amazing actress.

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jaddeo:

It is highly plausible to sleep with someone and not recognize them when you meet them years later. Especially is you're as narcissistic and promiscuous as Stefan is. It's all about the conquest and self gratification. Although the last close up of him in the film actually lends an air of feeling to him as he realizes all along who Lisa is. He doesn't love himself and he realizes in this beautiful moment that someone did love him and he is worth loving after all but it is now far too late. This is one of my favorite films of all time and Joan Fontaine is truly an amazing actress.

I agree with all of this.


mary:

If Stefan saw Lisa as "just like those other girls" why the phoney 5 star build up required i.e, "so nice and romantic."
If that's not "evil" it comes near enough.


It is his mating dance, so to speak. He is successful in seducing women because he is "nice and romantic". His internal monologue is not so much "Heh, slut!" as "Yay, party!". He clearly enjoys the flirting, drinking, dreaming, dancing and compliments as foreplay as much as he does the actual sex. If it was just about sex, he could hire a prostitute. The women he hooked up with ("those other girls" and Lisa included) fell more into the mistress category. That he successfully beds women using his charms feeds his ego.


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In any case, his character and his blatant ignorance undermined the impact that this movie could have had on me.

I don't see how you felt the film's impact was weakened by Stefan's personality. At the end Stefan comes to the realisation of his actions and goes to the duel which he may lose, therefore recieving his comeuppance.

"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not".

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The film has two themes, the first is "amour fou", mad love, which takes over as an obsession and blinds the sufferer to everything else in life, even to the point of self destruction. The second is shallowness, as exemplified by Stephan, ... you, the viewer are not meant to love him.

But you ARE Blanche ... and I AM.

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Of course, he was a shallow man. That's the whole point of the movie. She gave him her undying love, and he didn't even remember her. Mercy, he was good-looking, though!

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That's why you need someone as gorgeous as Louis Jourdan to pull this off. All he had to do is look at Lisa and she believed every charming lie he told. And that was sort of the point. She believed each encounter with him was a significant part of their "love story" and to him she was just some faceless, anonymous woman who made no impact on his consciousness at all.

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She actually did impact his consciousness and he didn't tell her a bunch of lies. Actually, quote me one lie.

He's a self destructive person with low self esteem who doesn't feel like he can live up to expectations people have of him as an artist. He's also pretty self absorbed and his womanizing is about proving and numbing himself.

His first date with Lisa though includes many details that show she is special to him like when he buys her a single white rose instead of the usual red roses, tells the man driving the carriage not to put the cover up like he usually would and is obviously touched when she tucks in his scarf.

His self absorption makes him scatter brained as when he forgets his other date, tells the man trying to make him look at a musical piece, "tomorrow" and forgets he has to go away for a concert but why would he track Lisa down where she works to tell her where he is going and to meet him at the station for a romantic farewell if she meant nothing to him?

Why exactly they never saw each for over 10 years after the "two weeks" at the station is open to debate or rather conjecture but I would say that for his part the way she treated him was dangerous to his negative self image as she had too high an opinion of him which would touch on his deeply rooted fears of inadequacy. His self deprecating remarks and inability to accept compliments ran counter to her opinion of him and as a self absorbed creature of habit I would guess that he fell into the traps of procrastination and denial in regards to her and that she fell into the traps of narcissism and pride--requiring him to seek her out.

Further, when he sees Lisa over 10 years later at the opera he is quite obviously and dramatically effected by it and is trying hard to remember her and knows she's somehow important to him.

However, none of this prevents him from being very nice to everyone he meets as we see him give money to children and treat his mute man servant and the people he deals with quite well.

That he is rather confused by Lisa during all of their encounters is really more her fault than his as she's never willing to be open with him or even provide many details about herself and even more crucially, accept him as the flawed man he is because she has built him up as an ideal.


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I think that this was the tragedy here. She loved him with all her heart, and he was just a womanizer (nothing more). It took her years to realize that he was no prize.

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