I can see why some people may be confused about this movie. The title, for starters, doesn't really reveal much about what's to come. However, after watching the movie the title should make complete sense.
Basically, this is a love story. Polly falls for and marries a man, Tom, she meets while involved with another guy, Bob. She and Tom love each other but their relationship becomes strained and they start to live separate lives. What went wrong?
The answer to that question probably depends on how one sees the story. When you love someone do you feel the need to do everything for them or do you feel they should do everything for you? This seems to be the basis to the problems between Polly and Tom.
Growing up as BF's daughter, Polly was accustomed to having her father pull strings to get her whatever she wanted. That's the kind of love she learned to give. Tom, on the other hand, is not accustomed to that and doesn't want that so the more she does 'for' him, the more useless he feels. Is she saying he's incapable of providing for his family?
When Polly learns all that Tom has done for another woman she immediately misinterprets their relationship. In the end the come together but it seems nothing has been resolved. They just know they want to be together but the same patterns will resume unless they learn figure out who their spouse really is.
Woman, man! That's the way it should be Tarzan. [Tarzan and his mate]
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