Anne or Kathy?


Which one did you think was better suited for Philip?

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For the bulk of the movie, I catch myself rooting for Anne. Kathy is so sheltered and concerned with appearances, and it seems hard for me to see her with Phil, who is passionate and empowered by his experiences to try and challenge the status quo of anti-Semitism. Anne's enthusiasm and spirit seem to be a good match for Phil.

By the end, however, I have to go with Kathy. In spite of her naive nature, she and Phil are completely captivated with each other from the start. Once Dave helps open her eyes to the ways of anti-Semitic America, and she offers her cottage to his family, I think she is on her way to becoming Phil's emotional soulmate. She is willing to help raise his son, and she seems ready to break with her past.


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I saw this movie tonight for the first time in over thirty years. When I last saw it, it was on WOR, channel 9 in NY, which was infamous for taking classic movies and cutting them to pieces so they would fit in a 90 minute time frame with enough time for all the commercials they interrupted the movie with. I remember Celeste Holm, as Ann, making a passionate proposal to Gregory Peck, the scene ended, and that was the end of Celeste. Surely, I reasoned, there had to be some resolution that WOR had cut out. Tonight I realised it was Elia Kazan who was to blame. Ann was a good person and she was left standing there with her heart and soul bared, and not a scintilla of a reaction from her beloved, and not an appearance or a reference to her thereafter. Dramatically, that was as crude as Mark Twain's satire Puddnhead Wilson in which Twain, when he got tired of a character, started the next chapter with something like "Ann fell down the well and was drowned". Ann, and the viewer, deserved better.

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mheckman, great post.

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I can see both sides of the Anne/Kathy argument, and I can see the validity of the argument that Kathy was best for Phil in the end...The trouble is that for too much of the film, I don't like Kathy. The moment in her part that REALLY bothers me is when, during her climactic argument with Phil, she admits that she's glad she's not Jewish, then goes on to say that being glad you're not Jewish is like being glad you're "rich instead of poor, healthy instead of sick, young instead of old..." I suppose that what she's really doing is comparing the way Jews are TREATED to being poor, sick, old, etc. -- she's not comparing JEWS THEMSELVES to these "negative" conditions...Still, that speech almost sickens me. *I* would have preferred it if Phil had gone with Anne, especially after she gave that heartfelt speech about married people needing to have the same moral values. Probably Moss Hart (the screenwriter) thought that by the end (the conversation with Dave), Kathy was starting to develop the same values as Phil -- but, as another poster suggested, this occurs much too late in the film for us actually to SEE any change in Kathy's behavior.

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You are far more generous evaluating Kathy's rich instead of poor speech.
It never occurred to me she was referring to the treatment of classes of people and even now that you have suggested it I cannot agree.
She is clearly saying: being rich is good, poor is bad; being healthy is good, sick is bad; being Christian is good, Jewish bad.
I do not believe she was so easily rehabilitated or rehabilitable.
The film had to end in some way. Although unbelievable, I believe it would have been difficult from the narrative point of view to have given an ending that would have pleased the movie going public.

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mheackman-1, agreed and well-stated. Watched this movie for the lst time and I was also dismayed at the abruptness of the ending w/o resolution or further exploration of the relationship between Anne and Philip after her proposal. Once Philip realized the pretentious and self-serving fraud that Kathy was, he would have grown to appreciate the honesty, forthrightness and better compatibility relationship-wise that Anne offered, as well as provide a working relationship career-wise in the same field of endeavor and, finally, offering the consideration and love for his son and mother, privately. Anne's character was growing throughout this film while being a friend, confidant and supporter not only for Philip but also for Dave, Philip's friend, while dealing with the racially sensitive subject of anti-Semitism. The ending for this film was disappointing to say the least, for Anne should have been the chosen one for companionship in the end.

Good to see that Celeste Holm won the Best Supporting Actress Oscar for her role in addition to being outrageously attractive back in the day.

Taped this film and will watch it again, soon.

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Anne.

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Anne is the one who could go the distance.

It just occurs to me that their is an inherent classism and snobbery in this expose of racism.

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Hmmm I also was hoping he'd go for Anne throughout the film, but I knew it would be Kathy...I suppose in the end she kind of 'redemmed' herself by giving the cottage to the Jewish friend, so I wasn't unhappy he chose her.

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"Never Judge A Girl By Her Straitjacket"

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Anne, I would if I was him; she's much more fun and less riddled with issues and neuroses. Anne's much more straightforward.

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Anne. I hated Kathy. Anne was right when she told Phil that one of the most important things in a marriage is to have the same values (or whatever) and I think her values were closer suited to his.

I hated that he chose Kathy in the end. A zebra does not change its stripes, if you catch my drift.

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It should have been Anne of course, but she was a good time girl and audiences probably wouldn't have swallowed her as the ultimate winner. Kathy wouldn't have changed overnight despite her protestations and good deed in letting the cottage to his friend.

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Anne was cool

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COMPLETELY agree. So much so, in fact, my inherent reaction when I saw it was that they deliberately changed the ending in an attempt to make it more politically correct for audirnces. I'm not finding that the original story was any different, though, unfortunately.

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I was hoping he would end up with Anne.

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The one I liked was his secretary.

What a bunch of good actresses they had in those days.

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I knew it would be Kathy, but in real life it would have been Anne. I found the ending to be just too contrived for what was meant to be a film that confronts an importnat issue of the time. It was totally unbelievable that a short conversation with Dave brings Kathy to change her views and make herself palatable to Phil. This is no more than Hollywood shmaltz.

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I pretty much agree with all you said, jackmunro. I do think, though, that a conversation when a friend like Dave points out your bad habits *can* make a person change or rather suddenly see where they've been wrong; one of those "light bulb coming on" moments, you know? The conversation itself, though, was pretty dumb, IMO.

I think Phil should've been with Anne. Kathy was just too blah and annoying.

LBE

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People don't change.
Rather, they don't change the way they think.
Kathy, did eventually learn to change how she had to behave.
Desperately wanting to keep Phil she had to demonstrate her new found moral compass by allowing Dave and his family to live in her cottage.
Such sacrifice and revelation had it's reward. Phil returned to her.
Completely self serving, if you were to ask me. And desperate.
Why Kathy would want a disapproving judgmental husband can only be explained by raging hormones.
I get it.

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Ok, I'm going to have to watch the movie again because seven years later, I have no idea what this conversation is about. *adds to Netflix queue* 

LBE

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I knew it would be Kathy he ended up with but I truly think that Anne is a much better match. Even though Kathy seemed to have a "rude awakening" after her conversation with Dave, I don't think that people change that quickly overnight. She ALWAYS said she was ok with everything but she still wavered and changed her mind the entire movie. I think that when it comes down to it and Kathy's family and town all came down on Dave, Kathy would probably not be able to deal with the pressure and would end up giving up after all, find some lousy excuse why, and her and Philip would break up. Anne however, her beliefs were like stone and seems so real and genuine, just like Phil. Anne was just an overall better person and had genuine true feeling for Phillip, no matter WHAT he was!!!! I think that if Phillip would have initally told Kathy he was Jewish when he first met her (yes, I know he hadn't thought of his story tactics before he met her, but just saying), I don't think she would have even shown any interest. She would have exhanged polite words of greeting and then that would have been all. There is NO WAY she would have wanted to be involved with a Jewish man because she was very close-minded.

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