bok602 says > Therefore it goes without saying that there is no rational reason why Romeo should have been so astonished that ANYONE he met at Capulet's feast was in one degree or another a Capulet.
1. It's a simple matter of common sense. As an uninvited and unwelcome 'guest', Romeo would have been foolish to assume that every other person at the party was a Capulet or one of their legitimate guests. Whether or not he knew it was a Capulet party made no difference; any party he could crash, others could crash too.
2. You use the word rational so let's try some basic logic. We see by his reaction later on that Romeo had enough good sense to know that a relationship with a Capulet would be difficult, at best, and dangerous, at worst. If he had any inclination Juliet was a Capulet before he approached her, he probably would have done one of two things: kept his distance or hesitated while he had an internal dialogue or struggle. It wasn't just his feelings to consider. If they got together he'd have to, at some point, reveal his identity to her. How would she feel about it; would she want anything to do with him; could her family accept him if she did; how would his own family react; was it worth the risk...?
Since there was no hesitation in approaching her, we can deduce that he never considered that she might be from the 'wrong' family. If it hadn't crossed his mind before, it stands to reason that he'd be surprised when he did find out.
3. If common sense or logic doesn't help, we'll try human nature. Let's say, for a moment, that you're right. Romeo knew or should have known that everyone at the party was one of 'them'; a Capulet and therefore his enemy.
When he laid eyes on Juliet, he was mesmerized and fell for her immediately. Since we all have a natural tendency to attribute negative qualities and traits to the 'out' group and assign positive qualities and traits to the 'in' group; the group to which we belong, Romeo's surprise upon finding out who she was still makes sense.
He hated the Capulets; the 'out' group in the proverbial 'us' versus 'them' view of people. As a result, he would never have considered it possible for someone as captivating; as beautiful; as alluring, and as wonderful as Juliet to be one of them. When he learns or it's confirmed that she is, his natural reaction would be a simultaneous mix of belief and disbelief; which, of course, we call surprise.
However you choose to look at it, it should be clear that Romeo's surprised or astonished reaction to finding out Juliet's identity fits. It was a sincere reaction and not at all unusual in that situation.
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