Echo_in_big_sky says > The thought revelations were really campy. Maybe it was one of the first times this idea was used. It might have been a novel idea.
The movie reminded me a lot of a soap opera. I don't know if it was hearing their thoughts or the facial reaction shots during the thought. At first it was kind of off-putting because I'm not a fan of soap operas but I liked the actors and the story so I stuck with it and got used to it.
I love how they can pine for one another after one lusty interlude years before.
Even before she married Sam there was an attraction between Nina and Ned. Ned was trying to get her to settle down so she could get over Gordon. He was interested in her but not in getting married. His profession came first. Sam was ga-ga over her so he pushed her in that direction. Charlie was supposedly interested but I think he was afraid of a real relationship. He used her 'flirtations' with the men at the hospital as an excuse to back away but she was interested in him anyway.
I never got the impression that Ned and Nina had a one-time encounter. It is possible to get pregnant after one time but it's unlikely. I think they were having a full blown affair with repeated sexual encounters. They told themselves it was for Sam's benefit, and it was, but they both were enjoying it and wanted each other.
I mean seriously, that's a stretch.
I believe they did develop genuine feelings but it was an impossible situation. Sharing such a big secret and a child; in addition to their lust and desire for each other; and spending all those years apart kept their 'relationship' going over the years. At different times they were each ready tell Sam the truth so they could be together but those times didn't coincide; when one was ready the other was not or the situation made it unfeasible.
I love how she had all three men gaga over her for all those years, without giving any of them anything, if you know what I mean.
I completely disagree. She gave Sam and Charlie exactly what they wanted. Sam wanted to marry her and he wanted a child. He got that. She stayed with him for the rest of his life. Charlie wanted her companionship more than anything and he got that too. He was around all those years and in the end he was the last man standing. He knew their secret; knew Nina didn't love him but he didn't care.
Early on Ned got want he wanted too but they fell in love with each other in the process so neither he nor Nina ever got what they really wanted; each other. Ned even said that; their love did great things for others people but for them, it caused heartache; something or someone always stood in the way of them being happily together.
Woman, man! That's the way it should be Tarzan. [Tarzan and his mate]
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