Guys Please Pay Attention
...if you want to know how to get and keep a woman watch Rupert Friend's films, especially The Young Victoria.
Beer spilling, cleavage-ogling, underwear-sniffing slobs need not apply.
Good manners, good grooming, dignity, industry, and character NEVER go out of style. Good looks are icing on the cake (although in Rupert's case the icing is pretty thick).