looks like the girl in Hot Shots Part Deux (1993)
she could almost be her daughter. I know, that's unlikely, but it's possible!
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000283/?ref_=tt_cl_t5
For Grave Encounters... I'm Lance Preston.
You are thinking of Brenda Baake, and I thought the same thing the first time I saw her, only I know Ms. Baake as Selena Coombs on American Gothic.