Bates Wilder: Bates Wilder. Actor: Joy. Bates Wilder was born on 14 October 1961 in Weymouth, Massachusetts, USA. He is an actor, known for Joy (2015), Tater Tot & Patton (2017) and The Great War (2019). He was previously married to Amy Wilder.
Known For: Joy (Todd), Tater Tot & Patton (Erwin), The Great War (Capt. William Rivers), Detroit (State Police Sergeant)