Ah, I see. That is a good distinction to make. I think you're right - I'm not really "attracted" (I'm a straight girl, lol) to conventional beauties. The thing is, it's probably because I'm white and have straight hair, blue eyes, and fair skin. All the things that are supposedly beautiful in our society. I think I'm attracted to exotic beauty/unconventional beauty because it's something I don't have! (Not saying I'm a "classic beauty" or anything.) I used to have a male friend from India who loved blond hair and fair skin and basically the American ideal. I thought he was insane, because I - on the whole - find Indian women so beautiful! I think it is in the eye of the beholder, like you said, and also I think we are attracted to the unfamiliar.
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