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Why do people rarely call Kim Basinger out for her equally poor parenting skills?


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February 6, 2006 -- KIM Basinger - achingly beautiful, awesomely talented - is absolute torture to be married to, according to the latest court papers filed by her ex-husband, Alec Baldwin. As the dueling couple prepares to head back to court later this year for a judge to reevaluate custody of their 11-year-old daughter, Ireland, "Alec is extremely frustrated by the seemingly never-ending efforts by his ex-wife to make life as difficult for him as possible," said a friend of his. Kim, who has custody, recently fired a state-appointed therapist who had consistently decided custody disputes in Alec's favor. The therapist noted in his exit report that he had never before seen a case where a mother said no to every single request for visitation-schedule changes from the father. But perhaps the worst thing Basinger did was in 2002, when she scheduled Ireland's baptism while Baldwin was working in Europe. Because of a scarcity of friends, Basinger made the gardener and housekeeper the godparents of the child. Basinger's flacks didn't return calls.

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3563782/Kim-Basinger-reflects-divorce-Alec-Baldwin-reveals-daughter-Ireland-convinced-film-Fifty-Shades-Darker.html

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People justifiably jump on Alec Baldwin over the voice-mail incident but hardly anybody pays much attention to Kim’s role.

Kim Basinger seems to be the type of person who has a weird obsession with her daughter. It’s almost as if she sometimes wants to live vicariously through her. And I was extremely disturbed by Kim’s comments about last year about “awarding Ireland freedom” as a way of apologizing for the agony that she put her through during her divorce from Alec.

Kim doesn’t seem to rationalize that this is really code for “enabling”. Of you allow a child to grew up without any set of rules and regulations, then they might as well have little to no moral compass.

Kim Basinger just comes across the type of person who rather be her daughter's friend or playmate then her parent/guardian and authority figure to respect. And I’m equally sickened by Kim using her daughter as a weapon/pawn against her war with Alec Baldwin. There’s little doubt in my mind that Kim was behind the release of that voice-mail. To Kim, it didn’t matter if her daughter was going to be humiliated to the world (again, that doesn’t divert the fact that Alec was absolutely in the wrong with what he said and the harshness behind it), because to her, the ends justified the means. She got the world to she her ex at his very worst even at the expense of their daughter becoming collateral damage.

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You forgot to mention which site you quoted that from.

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Maybe the real test of their different parenting skills is, Which of her parents is the daughter closer to?

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