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I wouldn't trust a male nanny.


Men simply don't have the nurturing instinct that women have. Also, it would make me uncomfortable to have a male stranger around my kids even though I don't have any.

Would you hire a "manny"?

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Androgynist!

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i actually have a friend who did it for a half year or so between his graduation and getting a teaching job.

apparently he was a big hit with the kids. he went back to visit for years after he moved on with his career.

but the odd exception aside, i more or less agree with you. i mean, if a guy applied for the job & he had references, i guess i'd consider it, but i'd pick a woman with equivalent or even lesser qualifications for sure first.

if i ever walked into a daycare with male-only workers, i would probably be dialing 911.

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You're a mansogynist.

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That sounds extremely sexist and is based on stereotypes that aren't always true. Some men are very nurturing and some women are not. Some women are not trustworthy and pose a danger to children, just like some men do. You can't judge people based solely on their gender.

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Very true, I’ve worked with kids. Very rewarding

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Jesus christ. Choose the person best suitable for the job. Going by gender is fucking stupid.

Here's a story from a while back. This person had came from a good family, lived in an affluent suburb, yet was a friggin lunatic.

https://boston.cbslocal.com/tag/abigail-hanna/

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5-7 years in prison?! Female privilege.

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I did a social work course years back and part of that involved some field experience in a child care centre. The kids loved me because I was different to the female carers. They had someone that would kick a ball around with them and the boys in particular had someone to relate to better. I had a different approach to it all than the women.

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YOUR FIRST SENTENCE IS SEXIST AND STUPID TOO...I HAVE RAISED MY DAUGHTER SINCE BIRTH...IM MOMMY AND DADDY...SHE IS MY BEST FRIEND...I HAVE WATCHED AND ENJOYED WATCHING HER FRIENDS AT TIMES AS WELL...THE GIRLS ALL SEEM TO ENJOY THEMSELVES WHEN THEY HANG OUT AND IM ALWAYS AROUND...YOUR SECOND SENTENCE HOWEVER,I HAVE TO ADMIT I MAY BE SEXIST ON THIS ONE...I WOULDNT TRUST ANYONE WITH A DICK WATCHING MY DAUGHTER.🤔

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Um, no. You're her father. That's completely different.

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"Men simply don't have the nurturing instinct that women have."


^ FALSE AND SEXIST.

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What about male teachers? Are you naturally mistrustful of them too?

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Good point....
Or male gym teachers at an all girls school, male coaches of female sports teams etc..

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