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Can you use 'dear' instead of 'expensive' where you live?


I notice it's falling out of use in Australia.

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I'm 45, I've lived in England and Australia. I've only ever used Expensive. I don't remember ever hearing someone use Dear, unless it was in a period movie or period TV show.
My parents are in their mid 70's and I have never heard them using Dear when they mean Expensive.

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It's common in Australia but falling out of use. Have you never heard someone say "it was dearer than I thought"? Or "it was quite dear"?

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"dear" used to be quite common down here in Oz. I haven't heard it too much of late.

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I watched "classic" home and away (circa 1994) a few years ago on TV and noticed a few words had fallen out of use.

Most notably, calling a nurse a "sister", a term that was used for both nuns and nurses probably up until the mid 90s.

Not sure if people did say "rack off" instead of "piss off" or "fuck off" but it was used a lot in the soaps.

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I remember "Rack off" which I think was kiddie swearing at the time. I also remember "Frig" or "Frigging" which again was a way for kids to say Fuck without getting in trouble from parents or a way for TV shows to swear without really swearing.

"Sister" is an old one for nurses as is "Matron" if I recall correctly being the term for a head nurse.

Lots of Aussie slang is gone now too. I don't hear "Strewth" much anymore.

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I only hear that when people impersonate Alf on Home and Away, along with "stone the crows".

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It's decline is probably linked to him!

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For once I’m someone who knows what the fudge you’re on about.

And yes, I still use dear as a synonym for expensive sometimes. Mostly I say “exie”

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I know your Aussie but thats an abbreviation too far surely?
Does anyone else use that?
Does anyone know what you mean?

:)

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i use ''exie'' all the time.

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("dear" meaning scarce and therefore costly)

That's an expression I heard my grandmother use -- And, she'd be well over 100 today. So, I'm assuming it's an old term.

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It never meant scare to me, just too expensive, or dearer, more expensive.

A Mercedes Benz is a dear car but they are plentiful.

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Maybe here is where I picked up the idea that 'dear' meant scarce (and therefore expensive).

This scene takes place in London during WWI when there are food shortages and rationing. In the bakery the wife refers to scarcity of flour and coal, while the husband says that buns have gotten dearer. I must have conflated 'scarce' and 'dear' in my mind. (But as I wrote in previous post, I now know that an item doesn't have to be scarce to be dear.)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nPYu0upLHpQ&t=4m23s

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It remains very common in Ireland.

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My dad (dubliner) uses mean for stingy. I think that's just an Irish thing too.

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Yes, that's also common here.

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"Rad" and now "dope" appear to have replaced "cool", but I'll never use those words.

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What about the horrible term of ‘sick’ for something coooool or good?!

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I've never encountered it yet but if that substitution takes hold, we're truly living in Bizarro World.

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Tell me about it!
It must be a U.K. thing then.
Yuck.

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No, no one will know what I am trying to say except aficionados of Downton Abbey and perhaps some really old senior citizans

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Or Australians. It’s really quite common here.

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I've heard "dear" in old American movies from the 30s and 40s.

The usage may be French-related. "Cher" means both dear and expensive. It's used for both today.

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